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I was posting to a thread in one of the groups about a very, very fun time I thought i'd write about here, too.

There's a strip club in SF called O'Farrell's. It's all nude, and well, progressive i guess. There are a lot of little private rooms with curtains over them. In the room is a table, like a couchy looking exam table. Vinyl...
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highresolution:
where have you been?
otoki:
Sent you a PM
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A few months ago, promised to tell a story about an experience in a big sex club in San Francisco. It's slipped my mind, and someone called me on it, so here goes.

There is a 3 story sex club in San Francisco called The Power Exchange. Look it up. One of the floors is for gay, one for couples, and the third is, well...
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khoos:
eeek
Sounds like a fascinating club! I don't think there's anything even remotely like that locally...
llona:
wow.
just wow.
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An FAQ Post:

Been awhile since I've done this, so for those who haven't read back far enough:

How do i accept payment? Depends on the client. Cash is typical, but for long time clients, it can be less formal.

How do I find clients? Exclusively via word of mouth. I started with a fuck buddy who said i should do it professionally....then said she...
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I've always wondered at valentine's day. I would assume that I'd have no work at all, as my normal clients would be otherwise engaged with their spouses. Not so! The romance is usually fake, and they feel obligated to put out. It's one thing to do a mercy fuck every few weeks when you feel bad enough, another to feel like it's expected just because...
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llona:
you are right. once the blossoms start, i'm ebullient. and i do think it's a good thing i'm crying, at least it's not stuck in my chest, taking up space.
xo
coley:
I think I might post some candids in a litte while.
smile
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Well, I sucked it up and saw my nympho friend again. And, again, I'm learning something new. Every one of these, I hvae to stop and think how stupid I feel that this is the first time with something like this. And I thin I'M the professional. Shit. Talk about humility!

I went to her house. She has the hugest bath tub ever. It's longer...
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khoos:
eeek

And

kiss
coley:
You are too cute!
<3
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Hello to all,

I saw my nypho client again. I'm confused as to whether i should continue to see her. With all other clients, there's a dynamic of them needing something that I am providing that is more than just an orgasm. The orgasm may be critical, or the thing they're looking for, but it's usually because it gives them a sense of self-worth, or...
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quinne:
where are you! i got your messages
but started a new job that keeps me a busy bee!
khoos:
Why does that dynamic make things difficult for you? That doesn't really make sense to me...
When I was dancing things were more difficult for me when I didn't feel like it was just a lap dance to my clients...
One customer in particular would come in once a week and spend between $400 and $1000 each week. But all he wanted to do was cuddle. I didn't have to dance or even take clothes off, all I had to do was sit on his lap and hold him. I've gone away from a session with him and cried for hours.
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Well, I finally got laid last night. Took out all my tension and frustration on this poor woman.

She's a former client, cute little brazilian woman. Divorced about a year ago, active in the dating scene, but is tired of the typical man and his limited bedroom skills. So i called her up, and asked her if she was up for a fun evening, and...
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lostlucy:
yes, i do think that sounds really lovely. i know it can be so confusing for men with that opening nearby that is so compelling and all, but true, just like you, we need to have the tension build & build in one area...

remember to thank her surreal
finklestein:
Hi, I just read through your journal. I think you're doing a wonderful thing. Hope you write more soon.
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Been a bit too long since I've posted anything here. I go back and forth on this place, but right now it seems interesting....so, here goes.

Been off the road for the past month. It's wierd, but I'm getting antsy. If I'm not travelling somewhere, then I get restless.

I also haven't seen clients in a month, which is also wierd. I have had sex...
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highresolution:
i'd take you up on your offer if i wasn't so far away.

good, new year, new city, new jobs, start my degree this year so just a fuckload of change and movement really.

you still online?
khoos:
I'd take you up on that offer too...
I'm going nuts over here with the lack of attention and lack of interest.
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Sorry....one last comment. I'm not aware of an actual 'g-spot' orgasm. There's vaginal, or penetrative orgasms; clitoral orgasms; and blended, or fully body, or combination which is a clitoral and vaginal orgasm combined.

I was referring to a vaginal, penetrative orgasm that involved a manipulation of the g-spot.

Maybe there is a different kind, though? What do you all women think? Is a vagnal, g-spot...
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highresolution:
hey. where you been.
uni:
Thanks for loving my set smile
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I'm back. I've been chatting with a few SG friends through this, but haven't participated at all lately. I'm also back in the business. I'm not sure why it's so hard to leave, but there's a part of me that really enjoys it and believes there's some positive to come of all of this.

So, last night I had a wonderful client, Persian woman. she...
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Hello to all the beautiful people,

Will you ever forgive me? it's been eons, I know...my apologies to you all.

I have so much to report, too. I'm afraid it will have to come in drips, though.

I'm in big, bustling, polluted Beijing right now, and am a sleepy peep.

just know that I've thought about you all incesantly, and will do much better at...
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highresolution:
I missed you, and your stories.

jaytan:
Wow, your adventures don't stop. Hope life is well for you. I used to live in Beijing years ago. It's changed immensely since then, but if you go to the Great Wall, try to go to the Si Ma Tai part instead of Ba Da Ling, the latter of which is far too touristy and the former of which is much prettier. . . don't forget to have plenty of Xinjiang (aka "Uyghur") food, for it's the best. Quanjude restaurant just south of Tian'anmen Square is the best roast duck restaurant there. Beyond that, the place has changed so much, I'd be all thumbs about it.

Oh yeah, and get yourself a "jianbing" if you see them. Small white carts on the street, women cook an egg pancake on a hot stone, add chilis and a crunchy crackerlike thing to it, fold it up, and serve. Excellent breakfast on the go!

Definitely report stories. If I wasn't living vicariously through you then, I sure as shit am now! tongue
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My dear lover,

You asked me a difficult question this evening. You ask why I started working - honestly. That's a hard question to be honest about. I mean, how many of us are really honest about ourselves? Can we even begin to see ourselves objectively?

Dunno, but I'll give it my best shot. At a minimum, I'll not intentionally be dishonest...is that fair?

I...
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highresolution:
My dear lover, I'm rather lamenting your absence. at least let us know your safe and well.
quinne:
where are you
i moved
im in oakland
dinner?