jennybean981

i agree with mindriot that he will wait if he loves you. Take your time to make a decision and do what will make you happy.

Yup you are right you are 19. Everything you are doing is well...... just perfect! Good luck

All I can say is... if that was J's response, then it definitely seems as though you got out at the right time. Not telling anyone about the break for a while should give you time to think about it clearly. As bad as any relationship can be, it takes time to get over it: make sure you are not thinking about J or anything from that relationship, and that not thinking or caring about it is natural, because only then will you be in the clear to think about starting something new. If you still have hang ups of any kind, you'll only plaster them over whoever you go to. Personally, I'm a fan of Archie comics, so take that for what you will, and remember that you did what you felt was right by you.

I'm coming from six months of the single life after being in a four year relationship that included three breakups. Talking about him being quiet just makes me wonder about the other details, what happened between the hours of talking and the next morning. Usually guys are more talkative in the evening settings anyway, and if it was the friend evening that you wrote about in an earlier post that'd explain it.

As to whether he's genuine and good or reconsidering, I'd wait to see if it was just the one night of flowing compliments and conversation or what. Given your situation, I would easily see him wanting to avoid any chaos that anything could bring.

I'd suggest thinking about you and J first and foremost. It doesn't take too much reading for me to feel that you have an up and down going on, and that's usually not good, especially if you can't talk about your spats. The biggest warning I'd give you is that if you put one foot in a new door before the other foot's out the old door, you're likely to get slammed on one or both counts. If you are beautiful and hot (which anyone here will likely tell you) and liked and would be treated like gold last night, then it should still be the case in a day or week or month when you've planted your feet firmly inside or outside the doorway you're currently straddling.

i agree with Paradym. only time will tell. some guys will tell you want you want to hear and promise you the world aand then....disappear and act as if youre a casual person. dont be to quick to judge either way, but do resolve your other relationship first, and not always but isometimes (f you cheat on a guy, the guy you cheat with will probably never take you seriously because he can suffer the same result)

Best of luck!

awww good luck my fingers are crossed for you ....a lots of hugs have nice new week!!!

Whoa, I like the way you plan. Good luck!

who could resist.. go with the funny, its always a winner.

good luck and fingers crossed
Dx

i know it doesn't really help to hear this, but even from the other side of europe you seem sexy!

maybe the independence of being in your own place would suit ya for now sweetie

ewww...not good! Im sorry sweetie! Take some pills and go to sleep!

I got nothing I'm afraid. My stomach hasn't been flat since I was 16. I've stopped even trying to lose weight, I'm just trying to resist the pace at which I gain it. I know genetics is a cop out, but I do think your upbringing has no much bearing on a persons self control and ability to moderate what they put in their body, and for all that my folks did right - they didn't pass that on.