okay so my previous journal entry was vague so if I want some advice I gotta give all the details, well explain myself abit more, but thankyou to the people who did try and help!
I started to like a friend of mine, I told my best friend Adam who went and told this guy. I stayed at the guys house last night due to a fall out and shittyness with my boyfriend. The guy spent the whole night saying how I deserved better than my boyfriend and how my boyfriend sounds like a knob and he cant believe i dont think im worth more than that. So I stayed around at his and I just came out with it, that I was confused due to my boyfriend situation and the face that I had started to develop feelings for him. He smiled and said he wasnt going to lie and that he really liked me and had thought the past week or something whether I liked him. He said he wont be that guy that gets inbetween a relationship, and its up to me what I do about my boyfriend and he wont say anything to persuade me either way. We stayed up til 6am talking and cuddling (nothing more) and he was being real decent saying "its weird to talk about dating you when youre still with your boyfriend, it doesnt feel right".
But then this morning when we woke up we were okay, like normal before everything was let out in the open, we didnt cuddle or anything though or talk about that night before.
I said to him before I left "if youre regretting anything about what was said last night, just say" and he said "no im not, its just i want whats best for you and i dont want you to just leave your boyfriend who youve been with for over a year and you live with and then be homeless." so he totally seems like hes being a decent guy about it all, Im just worrying that he may be reconsidering, even though he said hes not.
I just broke up with my boyfriend. I said we are not getting along and its not working and he was just like "yeah its shit" and then he was like "i could tell you somethings but youll just get upset" and he was being really short and off the whole time but not in an upset way, in a really pissy way, hes being a real dick about it.
Im not going to tell my friend that I like that I broke up with my boyfriend, Im not going to text him or anything or tell him, I see him every tuesday night (we all go out for drinks) so Ill tell him then. I dont want him to think im needy or klingy or dumped my boyfriend for him. I didnt. we had a lot of shit.
I want a fun, relaxed relationship, im 19 for goodness sake! My friend is so fun and laid back its awesome. Id only see him like once or twice a week and we both have our own social lives and hes really sociable so itll be a cool relaxed relationship.
I started to like a friend of mine, I told my best friend Adam who went and told this guy. I stayed at the guys house last night due to a fall out and shittyness with my boyfriend. The guy spent the whole night saying how I deserved better than my boyfriend and how my boyfriend sounds like a knob and he cant believe i dont think im worth more than that. So I stayed around at his and I just came out with it, that I was confused due to my boyfriend situation and the face that I had started to develop feelings for him. He smiled and said he wasnt going to lie and that he really liked me and had thought the past week or something whether I liked him. He said he wont be that guy that gets inbetween a relationship, and its up to me what I do about my boyfriend and he wont say anything to persuade me either way. We stayed up til 6am talking and cuddling (nothing more) and he was being real decent saying "its weird to talk about dating you when youre still with your boyfriend, it doesnt feel right".
But then this morning when we woke up we were okay, like normal before everything was let out in the open, we didnt cuddle or anything though or talk about that night before.
I said to him before I left "if youre regretting anything about what was said last night, just say" and he said "no im not, its just i want whats best for you and i dont want you to just leave your boyfriend who youve been with for over a year and you live with and then be homeless." so he totally seems like hes being a decent guy about it all, Im just worrying that he may be reconsidering, even though he said hes not.
I just broke up with my boyfriend. I said we are not getting along and its not working and he was just like "yeah its shit" and then he was like "i could tell you somethings but youll just get upset" and he was being really short and off the whole time but not in an upset way, in a really pissy way, hes being a real dick about it.
Im not going to tell my friend that I like that I broke up with my boyfriend, Im not going to text him or anything or tell him, I see him every tuesday night (we all go out for drinks) so Ill tell him then. I dont want him to think im needy or klingy or dumped my boyfriend for him. I didnt. we had a lot of shit.
I want a fun, relaxed relationship, im 19 for goodness sake! My friend is so fun and laid back its awesome. Id only see him like once or twice a week and we both have our own social lives and hes really sociable so itll be a cool relaxed relationship.
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personaljesus:
Yup you are right you are 19. Everything you are doing is well...... just perfect! Good luck
paradym:
All I can say is... if that was J's response, then it definitely seems as though you got out at the right time. Not telling anyone about the break for a while should give you time to think about it clearly. As bad as any relationship can be, it takes time to get over it: make sure you are not thinking about J or anything from that relationship, and that not thinking or caring about it is natural, because only then will you be in the clear to think about starting something new. If you still have hang ups of any kind, you'll only plaster them over whoever you go to. Personally, I'm a fan of Archie comics, so take that for what you will, and remember that you did what you felt was right by you.