It's been freezing cold in New Jersey, as with most of the country, and I often crawl into bed at night to watch TV. It always warms my heart when one or both of my cats come up and get under the covers with me. Even though I know that I am likely viewed as a heated pillow in their world, I'm glad...
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upton0goode:
I miss my cat :(  I know I wasn't just his heated pillow...I was also his food procurer and litter box emptier. He did sit on the rim of the tub when I took baths though. Hector was a goddamn saint. RIP, buddy.
vareon:
I know exactly how you feel! i have three cats (crazy cat lady in the making) and i feel lost without their cuddles! ^.^

Hope it's an amazing year. It's going to be the year I rebuild my life from the ashes. Can't function like this anymore.

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f1ssure:
@iggy Career change is not working out the way I hoped. Heart broken. It's just just been a rotten run.
iggy:
*hugs* Everything will be okay. 
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Got an e-mail with a discount offer to renew my membership. Early Christmas gift to myself - boobies. I went to the Blackheart Burlesque show in Asbury Park earlier this month and started thinking about the friends on the site I'd lost touch with. Giving the new format another try.

So, what have I missed?

iggy:
So glad you're back!!
dallas:
Glad you're back :)
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Yesterday was an amazing day. I spent it hanging with SG royalty @machete and her family. They live on a beautiful farm in a rural area. Once I actually found their place, which I dubbed "CIA headquarters" because it was so hard to find, I finally got to know her husband and meet the best behaved baby I've ever been around. And her little...
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iggy:
Nice!
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Not sure if my earlier blog posted... I logged on to find my account is still active. Rolling with it until the universe tell me otherwise.

Today's question is, is it possible to love someone you've never met in person? I've talked to her via Skype. Extensively on the phone. Text all the time. Email. This goes on every day, all hours...
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iggy:
I fell in love with my ex in London without meeting him in person first. We met here on SG and spoke on the phone, through e mail, and IM. Those were the days before Skype, so we never got a chance to do that. So yes, it is entirely possible to love someone who never met in person. 
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My account's still active. Didn't expect to find that. But, as with life, I'll roll with it. Until circumstances dictate differently.

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My account's still active. Didn't expect to find that. But, as with life, I'll roll with it. Until circumstances dictate differently.

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My account expires tomorrow and I'm not renewing right away. I might now renew at all. I'm going to see how I fare without SG as part of my existence for a bit and make a decision. Since the change in format, droves of people who I talked to regularly have left the site, leaving it rather lacking in stimulating activity. But the...
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I accepted my new job late last Friday. So on Monday I heard from the recruiter with a few questions and Tuesday morning, the HR department. We agreed on a start date in 3 weeks. While I have some obligations like tomorrow's physical, I do have quite a few things to wrap up and need the time to take care of it. They asked...
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iggy:
Ugh. That's not a good sign. It's like, 'what about 'I can't make it' do you not understand?'  Things like that have happened to me. Unfortunately for me, I'm poor and am usually going for jobs that are easily filled, so I have to appear like I am the most malleable, if that makes any sense, because I don't have anything to fall back on.
f1ssure:
@iggy It makes perfect sense. I've been more fortunate than most in that I've been able to support myself with day trading and have looked all over the country at jobs. Shocked myself when I found one in NJ again. I'm keeping an open mind but if they are game players, I'll lost patience fast. Hopefully this is an isolated incident and I'll be laughing about it in 5 years.