age: 40 (May 05, 1971)

MEMBER SINCE: February 2004

occupation: community support

stats: smiley

gets me hot: the smell of clean skin

fantasy: yes

body mods: spinal tat

heroes: yes

most humbling moment: earlier today

makes me sad: drama, gossip, back-stabbing, people who complain but never seek change

into: work, coffee, music, driving fast, hiking, hanging with my dog

makes me happy: ice cream with two spoons, my dog looks like a little wookie, great sound, listening to a great album for the first time in the dark, sharing secrets, the excitement of a talking all nite with a new friend, a great movie, friends who grow into lovers, long slow sex that lasts for days

i lost my virginity: in the nurse's office