age: 38 (Jan 31, 1975)
MEMBER SINCE: August 2004
occupation: Computer Security
most humbling moment: The birth of my son.
body mods: None, yet. One day I'll sketch out the tattoo design that's been running through my head...
makes me happy: Flirting, new comments, old friends, and getting paid doing a job I love.
i lost my virginity: To another virgin, who moved to France shortly afterwards...
sign: equals the opposite over the hypotenuse
into: All Things Unix (with emphasis on Solaris, OS X, and Gentoo Linux), Salsa dancing, and learning about most anything.
crush: Altoids Passion Fruit Sours---I love them!
makes me sad: Women who take flirting the wrong way, and solve it not by talking to you, but by going through your chain of command. I suppose that goes for any situation that would easily be solved with 30 seconds of communication.
I've had a lot of fun here over the past few years, and have met some great people, but I feel like it's time for me to go.
I'm getting a divorce, to someone I never should have married in the first place, but I have also found someone who I feel I want to spend the rest of my life with, and who fulfills everything I have ever wanted in a woman, without me having to comprimize anything.
I want to be in this relationship for all the right reasons, but to truly be part of that relationship, I need to let go of everything that is keeping me from giving myself to her fully. So I need to say goodbye.
Take care.
--phraktyl





















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