age: 43 (Apr 14, 1965)

MEMBER SINCE: July 2005

occupation: Trust me, I'm a doctor.

makes me sad: broken hearts, broken promises, the destructive effects of addiction

crush: I've quit crushing -- it's too hard on my heart.

sign: It's my second language, actually.

i lost my virginity: but I think it's trying to find me again.... YIKES!

gets me hot: intelligence; creativity; confidence; strong capable, beautiful hands; dimples are a bonus; a good vocabulary and smouldering passion that's always just slightly below the surface.

fantasy: I would really love to say that my fantasy is to live happily ever after but I'm not sure there is such a thing...Is there?

makes me happy: Sleeping in; hugs & kisses; presents (both giving & getting); bangin' drums with the line; sunshine in February; MRI scans that are deemed "stable"; white daisies;

into: Music of all kinds, reading (when I choose to make the time), the awesome local drum line I play with, collecting dinosaurs, American Sign Language and Deaf culture, searching for the next really great tattoo, burning the candle at both ends, keeping my family guessing what the hell I'm going to do next

most humbling moment: Surviving a spontaneous subarachnoid brain hemorrhage in December 2005. Every day since then feels like an absolute gift.