Had a horrible weekend.
Found out my best friend of 10 years has basically blabbed about every single personal thing I have told him about myself. I feel like I've been kicked in the nuts, and the stabbed in the stomach.
Trust is an important thing to me. I never break confidences. I know some horrendous things about him, and if I was to bring myself down to his level, I could really do some damage, but I'm better than that.
When I confronted him, he denied it over and over, even though he was the only person who knew things. He even tried to blame his daughter who may have overheard conversations. So I got proof it was him, and now he has gone completly silent. Won't take my calls, won't answer my texts.
No confession, no apology.
It really hurts. The fact he told other people my darkest secrets is bad enough, but to then lie to my face?
I've taken some kicks from ex-girlfriends, but to get it from my best friend for no reason other than to give him something to talk about? It stinks.
What the hell am I supposed to do now. Getting over my ex is bad enough, but now to have to get rid of my best friend and get over that too? This is shit.
Found out my best friend of 10 years has basically blabbed about every single personal thing I have told him about myself. I feel like I've been kicked in the nuts, and the stabbed in the stomach.
Trust is an important thing to me. I never break confidences. I know some horrendous things about him, and if I was to bring myself down to his level, I could really do some damage, but I'm better than that.
When I confronted him, he denied it over and over, even though he was the only person who knew things. He even tried to blame his daughter who may have overheard conversations. So I got proof it was him, and now he has gone completly silent. Won't take my calls, won't answer my texts.
No confession, no apology.
It really hurts. The fact he told other people my darkest secrets is bad enough, but to then lie to my face?
I've taken some kicks from ex-girlfriends, but to get it from my best friend for no reason other than to give him something to talk about? It stinks.
What the hell am I supposed to do now. Getting over my ex is bad enough, but now to have to get rid of my best friend and get over that too? This is shit.
Wow, it's over a year since I wote anything! Funny how my previous posts were about being heartbroken, and now I'm in the process again. Gotta laugh though.
I'm getting tougher I think, recovering well now. Decided to change paths and become a Holistic Therapist / Counseller, and I am much happier with life now!
Also got a tattoo at long last. It's only small, but had to start somewhere. Trying to design my next one. I can't wait to be back on the table.
I'm getting tougher I think, recovering well now. Decided to change paths and become a Holistic Therapist / Counseller, and I am much happier with life now!
Also got a tattoo at long last. It's only small, but had to start somewhere. Trying to design my next one. I can't wait to be back on the table.
I am seeing a counsellor to help me get over the break up of my last relationship.
She told me something shocking today. I have been the victim of an abusive relationship. Until now I have been blaming myself for all the missteps I made, the things she told me I did wrong, my apparent character flaws. I never once stopped to consider that maybe it wasn't me that had the problem.
I put this woman on a pedastal, and she treated me like shit, and I thought it was my fault. OMG!!!!
She told me something shocking today. I have been the victim of an abusive relationship. Until now I have been blaming myself for all the missteps I made, the things she told me I did wrong, my apparent character flaws. I never once stopped to consider that maybe it wasn't me that had the problem.
I put this woman on a pedastal, and she treated me like shit, and I thought it was my fault. OMG!!!!
