should i be concerned that my boyfriend chats on singles sites? He has been for a long time. my mind says hell yes i should be furious! but when i talk to him about it, he makes it seem innocent. that he only talks and flirts (mostly guys) and has no intentions of meeting the people he talks to. i believe this, but i dont want to.
a couple months ago we were out at a restaurant and i saw a couple who seemed to be sneaking like they were not to be seen together. they met up there and then got into one car together. i pointed this out to him and he said, "good for them if they can get away with it." this bothered me, because there is nothing good about cheating when you are with someone who does not cheat on you. it would be different if she was abused and could not get away from the guy. then he mentioned that he did the same thing. and he did, the first time we dated. he cheated on me once in the fall of 2004 and we did not break up until summer of 2005. then he proceeded to fuck the little hoe he promised to me that he did not sleep with while we were together. i hate not being able to trust people when they speak. then i had a HPV scare shortly after we got back together end of the summer in 2005.
i know my friend once cheated on her husband, she spent too much time online talking to other guys. when he found out, he would not let her use the internet without his knowledge and then he became suicidal and they up'd his meds, he is bipolar. they are ok now, but she is still a bit unhappy with her marriage. i think she rushed into it, they only knew each other for a year before they got engaged. i have known my boyfriend since February 2003, that was when we met. he pursued me, but i did not want to date him, cause he was too young for me, he was 17 when we met. he would not turn 18 until september (2003). he continued to try to get me until 4 months later when i finally gave in. 4mths he tried. he was patient. then he was more romantic than he is now. he was more poetic and deep when it came to love. now i feel ike we have been married for 10 years. we still have hot sex, that is one thing about us, we are hot for each other. but i am so worried about fidelity.
i dont want him screwing someone uncarefully and then bringing something home to me. i have only slept with 7 men, i lost my virginity when i turned 21. i know, my parents were ultra-christians. i do not want to sleep with anyone else. i get hit on all the time, even my his best friend who has been trying to steal me away ever since we first met. what do you think, should i worry? he tells me all the time that he loves me, i want to believe it, but i have trust issues.
a couple months ago we were out at a restaurant and i saw a couple who seemed to be sneaking like they were not to be seen together. they met up there and then got into one car together. i pointed this out to him and he said, "good for them if they can get away with it." this bothered me, because there is nothing good about cheating when you are with someone who does not cheat on you. it would be different if she was abused and could not get away from the guy. then he mentioned that he did the same thing. and he did, the first time we dated. he cheated on me once in the fall of 2004 and we did not break up until summer of 2005. then he proceeded to fuck the little hoe he promised to me that he did not sleep with while we were together. i hate not being able to trust people when they speak. then i had a HPV scare shortly after we got back together end of the summer in 2005.
i know my friend once cheated on her husband, she spent too much time online talking to other guys. when he found out, he would not let her use the internet without his knowledge and then he became suicidal and they up'd his meds, he is bipolar. they are ok now, but she is still a bit unhappy with her marriage. i think she rushed into it, they only knew each other for a year before they got engaged. i have known my boyfriend since February 2003, that was when we met. he pursued me, but i did not want to date him, cause he was too young for me, he was 17 when we met. he would not turn 18 until september (2003). he continued to try to get me until 4 months later when i finally gave in. 4mths he tried. he was patient. then he was more romantic than he is now. he was more poetic and deep when it came to love. now i feel ike we have been married for 10 years. we still have hot sex, that is one thing about us, we are hot for each other. but i am so worried about fidelity.
i dont want him screwing someone uncarefully and then bringing something home to me. i have only slept with 7 men, i lost my virginity when i turned 21. i know, my parents were ultra-christians. i do not want to sleep with anyone else. i get hit on all the time, even my his best friend who has been trying to steal me away ever since we first met. what do you think, should i worry? he tells me all the time that he loves me, i want to believe it, but i have trust issues.
i used to be such a trusting person, naive even. but ever since the cheating situation, i have been suspicous and paranoid. my mind plays tricks on me all the time, so i dont know if i can trust it. i am patient, so i will ride it out and see where it goes. what i really want to do is start over. move somewhere i have never been and start anew, as a new person. i dont know what is holding me to him really.