And now some pictures of what I've been doing lately.

Putting hat's on my cat's.

Becky and I went to the museum of natural history in NY over Christmas vacation. I was suprised to find that the people of central america felt the need to depict anal sex in pottery. Right on!!

Becky and I also went to see Morris Day and the Time. If you don't remember this was the band that was Prince's arch nemisis in the movie Purple Rain. These guys put on an awesome show. I highty recomend seeing them.
In other news Bonfirecollapse related:
We've set a date for the wedding. Beckster and I will be hitched on July 6th of this year. Very Exciting!!!! This is taking up a lot of time. Who knew there was so much to be planned. And so many hidden costs. We'll spend over two hundred dollars on postage sending the dave the date cards and the invites. And we're trying to keep this a small affair of 120 people.
I did get the 160 gig ipod for christmas. And for the past month I've been slowly transfering all my music from cd to ipod. This is turning into quite the project. Right now I have 3692 songs on there (when I'm done tonight I'll have over 200 more songs on there). This totals over ten straight days of music. And I'm probably about 1/4 done with my total music catalog. My new friend ipod will be the dj at the wedding this summer. So I'll be able to program all the music for us to dance to, which means no fucking chicken dance/macerena/electric slide bulshit. Any suggestions for good dance music to put on there?

Putting hat's on my cat's.

Becky and I went to the museum of natural history in NY over Christmas vacation. I was suprised to find that the people of central america felt the need to depict anal sex in pottery. Right on!!

Becky and I also went to see Morris Day and the Time. If you don't remember this was the band that was Prince's arch nemisis in the movie Purple Rain. These guys put on an awesome show. I highty recomend seeing them.
In other news Bonfirecollapse related:
We've set a date for the wedding. Beckster and I will be hitched on July 6th of this year. Very Exciting!!!! This is taking up a lot of time. Who knew there was so much to be planned. And so many hidden costs. We'll spend over two hundred dollars on postage sending the dave the date cards and the invites. And we're trying to keep this a small affair of 120 people.
I did get the 160 gig ipod for christmas. And for the past month I've been slowly transfering all my music from cd to ipod. This is turning into quite the project. Right now I have 3692 songs on there (when I'm done tonight I'll have over 200 more songs on there). This totals over ten straight days of music. And I'm probably about 1/4 done with my total music catalog. My new friend ipod will be the dj at the wedding this summer. So I'll be able to program all the music for us to dance to, which means no fucking chicken dance/macerena/electric slide bulshit. Any suggestions for good dance music to put on there?
Do you know how many times in the last month and a half I've logged in here fully intending on updating and just losing all interest in following through with it. So with nothing much to say here I am. Very busy with many things on my plate. Working two jobs and trying to plan a wedding.
I wish my income didn't completely rely on other people. Living on a tipped income sucks and I'm getting a little tired of having one really good week and then two crappy weeks. Both jobs are like this, and they seem to coincide too. So I won't have one good week bartending and then a slow week doing massage and vice versa. No, it seems like the week that i'm scheduled 40 hours bartending and serving is the same week that I have 10 massages booked. This makes for a very tired Kevin. Then the next week i'll have one massage and the other job is really slow too. I guess very few people really enjoy their jobs though. Seems like lately nobody I know likes where they're working......so maybe it's just the time of year.
Good music I've been listenig to lately.
El-P - I'll Sleep When You're Dead
Busdriver - Roadkillovercoat
Aesop Rock - None Shall Pass
Northen State- Can I Keep This Pen?
I highly recommed any of these if you are into hip hop at all.
I wish my income didn't completely rely on other people. Living on a tipped income sucks and I'm getting a little tired of having one really good week and then two crappy weeks. Both jobs are like this, and they seem to coincide too. So I won't have one good week bartending and then a slow week doing massage and vice versa. No, it seems like the week that i'm scheduled 40 hours bartending and serving is the same week that I have 10 massages booked. This makes for a very tired Kevin. Then the next week i'll have one massage and the other job is really slow too. I guess very few people really enjoy their jobs though. Seems like lately nobody I know likes where they're working......so maybe it's just the time of year.
Good music I've been listenig to lately.
El-P - I'll Sleep When You're Dead
Busdriver - Roadkillovercoat
Aesop Rock - None Shall Pass
Northen State- Can I Keep This Pen?
I highly recommed any of these if you are into hip hop at all.
Holy crap i'm 30.
ok......I'll admit it now. I have a couple grey hairs in my beard. There I said it. They're not blonde.
ok......I'll admit it now. I have a couple grey hairs in my beard. There I said it. They're not blonde.
This is the picture I took right after I asked Becky to Marry me.

She said Yes!!!
ps. Thank you SG for giving us a place to meet each other.

She said Yes!!!
ps. Thank you SG for giving us a place to meet each other.
Holy flarking schnit!!!!!!
Things are looking up in my world.
In the last two weeks I got a job as a massage therapist. (actually I just had my second interview a couple hours ago so i only JUST got the job)
Also I found out that they caught the person who stole my identity. My faith in the Springfield Police Dept. has been restored. At least the detective that's working on my case.
That is all for now.
Things are looking up in my world.
In the last two weeks I got a job as a massage therapist. (actually I just had my second interview a couple hours ago so i only JUST got the job)
Also I found out that they caught the person who stole my identity. My faith in the Springfield Police Dept. has been restored. At least the detective that's working on my case.
That is all for now.
hapyy 6-o de mayo. the mexican hangover day. actually i heard recently that yesterday wasn't that big of a holiday in mexico until the coors company got involved. for some reason i can believe that.
not much new to report here. except that i am constantly asking myself......"are you ready to own a home?". i think i am. so becky and i have started the great search into home ownership. which can be a pain in the ass. you have to balance what you can afford with what you want and where you want it. these things don't alway line up like you wish they would. but i'm sure we'll find what we're looking for.
that is all for now.
not much new to report here. except that i am constantly asking myself......"are you ready to own a home?". i think i am. so becky and i have started the great search into home ownership. which can be a pain in the ass. you have to balance what you can afford with what you want and where you want it. these things don't alway line up like you wish they would. but i'm sure we'll find what we're looking for.
that is all for now.
Happy Saint Patty's day......I think i'm required to say that since I'm three quarters irish. not much drinking for me tonight since i have to work. i'll be serving the green beer and guinness. but i do have a guinness in the fridge waiting for me when i get home from work tonight.
baby steps into adulthood....
so beckaroo and i bought a couch recently (well it was a tax return that actually paid for it). no more hand me down couches (the couch i had in my first apartment was left over from the seventies). all i could think of while we were test driving all the couches in the showroom was the line from fight club "which couch defines me as a person". although i don't think our couch defines me as a person it is really damn comfortable. so what's next? i've never been a person to go out and buy very expensive things that don't have a very practicle purpose. but, i was recently in best buy and i can afford to buy a flat screen tv right now. so do i do it even though we have a perfectly good (although kind of small) tv?? it would be great to be able to watch movies on.....while sitting on our comfy comfy couch. we'll see.
in other news that whole id theft thing has not gone away.....and won't for quite some time. but a lot of things about it have been cleared up.
that's about it for now....i'll try updating more often.
baby steps into adulthood....
so beckaroo and i bought a couch recently (well it was a tax return that actually paid for it). no more hand me down couches (the couch i had in my first apartment was left over from the seventies). all i could think of while we were test driving all the couches in the showroom was the line from fight club "which couch defines me as a person". although i don't think our couch defines me as a person it is really damn comfortable. so what's next? i've never been a person to go out and buy very expensive things that don't have a very practicle purpose. but, i was recently in best buy and i can afford to buy a flat screen tv right now. so do i do it even though we have a perfectly good (although kind of small) tv?? it would be great to be able to watch movies on.....while sitting on our comfy comfy couch. we'll see.
in other news that whole id theft thing has not gone away.....and won't for quite some time. but a lot of things about it have been cleared up.
that's about it for now....i'll try updating more often.
Do you know what sucks a donkeys ass? Identity theft. This year has kind of started out in a shithole.
So a couple weeks ago i started getting phone calls from sprint pcs saying that they want to talk about my account with them. and i tell them repeatedly that i don't have an account with them and that i've had a verizon phone for over five years now and to please stop calling me a trying to sell me an account. then i get a bill from them for almost three hundred dollars. so i called them up and spoke to their fraud department and had that account cancelled and found out that it had been ordered online and someone out there had some information on me. so i call up and order my credit report from all three companies (i've never done this even though people say that you should get one every year) a week later when i recieve it i find out that i have four credit cards in my name three of which are twice the limit and one has already been cancelled for lack of payment. also, there are two address' on my report that i've never lived at, one in philadelphia and the other right here in springfield. lucky me. so far i've called all the credit reporting companies and had a fraud alert put on my account so that if anyone wants to open a line of credit they have to call me personally and get my approval that it really is me. also all three companies are investigating the faulty credit cards. and already i had dell investment company call to say that someone (from the springfield address) is trying to open up a line of credit to buy a computer. luckily i think i may have caught this before it went to far. all this started happening at the end of last october. and there isn't any huge debts or things that have gone delinquint. hopefully this will all be cleared up. but i've had people tell me that this will follow me for years to come.
so when all this is done do you think i'll be able to press criminal charges against the people living at that address in springfield? because i know most of the accounts on my report are tied to that address. or is it a faulty address. it's in a really shitty neighborhood so i haven't had a chance to drive by and find out if that address really exists. or should i take things into my own hands??? (i don't know what i could possibly do though)
So a couple weeks ago i started getting phone calls from sprint pcs saying that they want to talk about my account with them. and i tell them repeatedly that i don't have an account with them and that i've had a verizon phone for over five years now and to please stop calling me a trying to sell me an account. then i get a bill from them for almost three hundred dollars. so i called them up and spoke to their fraud department and had that account cancelled and found out that it had been ordered online and someone out there had some information on me. so i call up and order my credit report from all three companies (i've never done this even though people say that you should get one every year) a week later when i recieve it i find out that i have four credit cards in my name three of which are twice the limit and one has already been cancelled for lack of payment. also, there are two address' on my report that i've never lived at, one in philadelphia and the other right here in springfield. lucky me. so far i've called all the credit reporting companies and had a fraud alert put on my account so that if anyone wants to open a line of credit they have to call me personally and get my approval that it really is me. also all three companies are investigating the faulty credit cards. and already i had dell investment company call to say that someone (from the springfield address) is trying to open up a line of credit to buy a computer. luckily i think i may have caught this before it went to far. all this started happening at the end of last october. and there isn't any huge debts or things that have gone delinquint. hopefully this will all be cleared up. but i've had people tell me that this will follow me for years to come.
so when all this is done do you think i'll be able to press criminal charges against the people living at that address in springfield? because i know most of the accounts on my report are tied to that address. or is it a faulty address. it's in a really shitty neighborhood so i haven't had a chance to drive by and find out if that address really exists. or should i take things into my own hands??? (i don't know what i could possibly do though)
I'm friends with the girl who plays cello in this clip from the show Boston Legal. I can now say that i'm one degree of seperation away from Murphy Brown.
In other news I'm very glad that the censored sets are back up again. Apnea and Benni's "Water" set is probably one of the hottest ones on this site.
I can't believe that I've been a member here for four years now. Wow how time has flown and how the site has changed since then. I never recognize any of the girls who have new sets lately. Actually I barely ever look at new sets unless I know who the girl is or if the pic on the main page looks like she has cool tattoos. It seems kind of weird to me that some of the new girls who are 18 or 19 were only 13 or 14 when this site first went up.
In other news I'm very glad that the censored sets are back up again. Apnea and Benni's "Water" set is probably one of the hottest ones on this site.
I can't believe that I've been a member here for four years now. Wow how time has flown and how the site has changed since then. I never recognize any of the girls who have new sets lately. Actually I barely ever look at new sets unless I know who the girl is or if the pic on the main page looks like she has cool tattoos. It seems kind of weird to me that some of the new girls who are 18 or 19 were only 13 or 14 when this site first went up.

