Things are so messed up I don't even know where to start. Almost had to bring my wife one of those "My husband went to Texas and all I got was a divorce" t-shirts.
Work is rough too. Been slackin' and feeling guilty. I took on all this extra work that requires OT and travel to come back into favor. The timing is horrible with so much going on in my relationship.
On the + side, Austin has to be one of the coolest cities on the planet. High tech, music, film community. Too bad it's feels like a sweaty crotch outside all the time.
Need to grow a sack and make some decisions. Get going on my own life and stop focusing on all the "distractions".
Work is rough too. Been slackin' and feeling guilty. I took on all this extra work that requires OT and travel to come back into favor. The timing is horrible with so much going on in my relationship.
On the + side, Austin has to be one of the coolest cities on the planet. High tech, music, film community. Too bad it's feels like a sweaty crotch outside all the time.
Need to grow a sack and make some decisions. Get going on my own life and stop focusing on all the "distractions".
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Love is far to scarce anymore to give up, hell its far to scarce to GIVE unless its the right person and fuck you guys have kids, and from what ive gathered have known each other for awhile.....youve both already "given" love to each other now fucking capitalize on it.
Shit man, if i coulda taken back the things i did to make my marriage worse i woulda done it in a heartbeat....fuck what everyone else says, it fucking hurts and there is no mortal blow that will EVER fucking strike harder than losing someone you dearly love. Believe me when i say it, i speak from expierience. For the first 6-7 months of my divorce i tried to kill myself numerous times, i enrolled myself in therapy because of how much pain i was in emotionally.
This my friend is a pain you do not dare want. I am so serious when i say i wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy.
Love is a tricky thing you see. It cant be one sided and if it is it becomes angry. I know you are prolly laughing your asses off at my soft heartedness but if its making you laugh together then good, laugh till u guys cry then kiss and make up and have good sex
I want ya to know man, you are a priveleged man, feel so. To bring life into this world with someone you love? Fuck is there any better gift? I think not and if you can think of one then surely you jest
Do me a favor both of you, right now....if she aint there call her in here right now.
Look at her dude, not just any look get close look into her eyes, dont be shy, do it.
What do those eyes tell ya man? Shit im in colorado and im telling you those eyes are telling you that theres something wrong....those eyes are also telling you fix me. Hah i sound like a therapist, but if thats what it takes then so be it.
Look again, if the urge to kiss is there do it, seriously but do it with *drumroll*........L O V E.
I know the feeling of being bored in a marriage bro, it sucks but heres what we did to get rid of atleast the boredom if anything:
Get pimped out one night, both of you. Send her to a club meet her there 15 minutes after shes been there. Walk up, flirt and conversate. Get her number (ahhhh shit its gettin crazy in hurr lol) Do the entire dating thing, pay for her drinks, ask her to dance. Have fun. Then when the club closes go home and light up the candles cause those motherfuckers bring some serious romance. Soft music (evanesence My Immortal instrumental is perfect) take it slow...the rest im sure you got.
Im not trying to tell ya how to have sex or make love im just suggesting what is a good idea to respark the old flame. Gotta spice that shit up sometimes or it gets old fast, hittin the same shit all the time CAN get boring but if not overly done and each time its done its done right, the sex can only get better, which can lead to a healthier relationship.
In that note IM me on aol if ya want, call me if need be, but im ears that arent deaf and will gladly listen, names Jason by the way, either of you can call if ya want i dont mind, hell even both at once.
"This life is far to scary, and hard to walk through alone; find your star, grab her by the hand and let you both lead the way to happiness and eternal bliss"
~Me