Sorry for the update drought; I've been worrying day and night about my ex-fiance/best friend and her sudden refusal to take her long-perscribed meds. I've heard awful reports from her ultra-stressed out mother about muttering in "Hebrew" jibberish, laughing fits, screaming at and cussing out family members, breaking things, throwing their cat out in the street, etc.
I just called her a few weeks ago to see what she wanted for her birthday and was suddenly bombarded with all of this horrid information, and today I was supposed to go to her house and talk to her, but she was asleep from being drugged during an earlier hospital visit, so I had to leave after a while.
I learned that she's moving to an independent living facility tomorrow, which will supposedly be a good thing resulting in more social interaction and better employment opportunities, but I've seen relatives live in places like they haven't enjoyed it.
Ugh, I could go on and on about how worried I am, but I might not be very convincing given that I've been leisurely commenting on SG these past couple weeks. I just haven't updated my journal because I was waiting to report on how this day went, and it turns out nothing happened. I still don't know first-hand how bad she is or how to act around her. Quite a leap from being engaged just a year ago.
I'm wondering how this is going to affect my enjoyment of the NIN show this monday, and the enjoyment of all my concert-mates if I tell them. I suppose I'd better use it as a healthy escape, just like SG.
Anyway, that's all for now. I'll let everyone know how this whole thing works out, only that obviously won't be for quite a while so don't think I'm being cold when all I post are reviews for the various shows and events I'm attending.
Later.
I just called her a few weeks ago to see what she wanted for her birthday and was suddenly bombarded with all of this horrid information, and today I was supposed to go to her house and talk to her, but she was asleep from being drugged during an earlier hospital visit, so I had to leave after a while.
I learned that she's moving to an independent living facility tomorrow, which will supposedly be a good thing resulting in more social interaction and better employment opportunities, but I've seen relatives live in places like they haven't enjoyed it.
Ugh, I could go on and on about how worried I am, but I might not be very convincing given that I've been leisurely commenting on SG these past couple weeks. I just haven't updated my journal because I was waiting to report on how this day went, and it turns out nothing happened. I still don't know first-hand how bad she is or how to act around her. Quite a leap from being engaged just a year ago.
I'm wondering how this is going to affect my enjoyment of the NIN show this monday, and the enjoyment of all my concert-mates if I tell them. I suppose I'd better use it as a healthy escape, just like SG.
Anyway, that's all for now. I'll let everyone know how this whole thing works out, only that obviously won't be for quite a while so don't think I'm being cold when all I post are reviews for the various shows and events I'm attending.
Later.
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And have a blast at the NIN show, ya lucky fuck!
(wouldn't think you were being cold. life is life)