You know what irritates me? When someone has an asshat personality but blames everyone around them saying that this is their personality and everyone should adjust to them, cause that's just how I am.
No, that's how you choose to be. You do not have to be a dick to everyone around you. You are choosing to be. And that is how you end up with nothing but jerks around you. Myself, i prefer to be happy and pleasant with people. I prefer to give them the benefit of the doubt. I would prefer to get to know someone first. I'm not always successful, but I do try.
I hope you all are having a great day so far.
Loves and hugs.