So, if there are any montreal chicks out there looking for a roommate, let me know- i'm generally a good girl, exept I want a dog. I don't smoke cigarettes but I do smoke pot on occasion, something I can definitley do on a balcony. I'm looking to find a place somewhere between 300-425$ a month, starting feb-march 2009.
Life is hectic. Christmas was good but nothing changed, nobody wants to talk about why I left but everyone is happy to jump on me for every small thing I could have possibly done within the last week. I had so much hope that things could get resolved, but I see now that it is impossible to change a person. No matter how much you love them, no matter how carefully you tiptoe around their feelings and their opinions, their true selves will always come out. Unfortunatley, when it is family, you have no choice but to love them regardless. I feel like i've failed myself.
Life is hectic. Christmas was good but nothing changed, nobody wants to talk about why I left but everyone is happy to jump on me for every small thing I could have possibly done within the last week. I had so much hope that things could get resolved, but I see now that it is impossible to change a person. No matter how much you love them, no matter how carefully you tiptoe around their feelings and their opinions, their true selves will always come out. Unfortunatley, when it is family, you have no choice but to love them regardless. I feel like i've failed myself.
Once you stand on your own it is much harder for them to be critical. And at some point they realize that they have to respect you, or you will be gone completely, ya know?