Wednesday, November 6, 2013
10 ways to know he's interested in you!
There are many ways a man can show you that he's interested. Here are some common ones that are easy to overlook.
- The Future: When you talk, i mean real talk. A conversation as to what your plans and dreams are. Listen to him speak. When he talks about his future are you in it? If so, he may have you in his plans for the long term.
- Spending Habits: Does he spend money on you without you asking. In today's rat race we are busy all the time. If he takes time out to buy you things without you asking, its probably because your on his mind. Don't focus on what the items are. But focus on the fact that he thinks about you even when your not around. The items themselves are insignificant, is the thought that counts.
- Family Time: Is he interested in meeting your family? How many times do we make friends with someone and never know where they come from? What they're home lives are like? What they do when you don't see them at work. A man truly interested in you wants to know where you come from. And how you interact with your family and friends.
- Interests: Most men will never see the movie Love Actually or 50 first dates. But he will because you want to. The things you like he will take interest in because you do. He'll go to that movie or that play because he knows you like these things. And he wants to share the experience with you. Even though it may be killing him on the inside!
- Reaction: When times get lean, and we live in the days where times are lean for alot of people. He doesn't run. Your problems now become his problems. And he reacts accordingly. Everybody needs help sometimes, and if he is willing to be a pillar in your plight he may value your relationship beyond just friendship.
- Spare time: You don't have to look for him. He's with you. Are you wondering why he is not answering his phone? If you find yourself with a man who is constantly M.IA. there maybe be a very real issue. Where is he? What is he doing? These are not the sings of a man who is interested in you.
- I vs We: When he talks, he says we. He already sees you as a unit. And plans on having you around. It isn't i should move to the city, but we should move to the city.
- Friends: He introduces you to his friends. He's not hiding you or ashamed of you. He wants you to interact with his social circle. And he's willing to interact with yours even if it isn't his scene.
- He loves your crazy: Everybody is a touch eccentric. He's seen yours. And he can deal with it. It doesn't scare him off. He still hanging in there. He's willing to cope. And sometimes if your lucky he indulgence in it.
- He bends over backwards: Most of us are middle class and are feeling the squeeze. We don't need anybody making life any harder than it has to be. Who has time to carry the next ones weight. If you find him going out of his way to make things happen, He just might be attached. Is he willing to make that trip, pick this up, or go across town?