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opticnerve:
Compare the time of my post and the time of the second testimonial.
opticnerve:
wink
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kozmikgirl:
Yeah, that was the part that made me avoid the movie for so long. My son told that they didn't really show anything gross during that part (I was hiding my eyes behind a blanket just in case my son was trickin' me).

I guessed pretty early on about the "dead" guy in the middle of the room. I hate it when I guess stuff. I want to be surprised too, damn it!

I also guessed about Identity 20 minutes into it, damn me! mad
1stxer:
I also saw Kingdom of Heaven the last night, I enjoyed the movie.
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commonman:
And change. Hmmm. I'm not exactly sure what needs to change yet. I just know that change is needed. So, I'm looking into job changes, place changes, changes in how I spend my free time, etc. We'll see when the changes start happening . . .
casperstarshack:
War and Peace. It speaks for itself.
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life begins when you realize you aren't special. and you learn that it is okay.

are you a "saver," a "$pender," or a schmoozer?


  • is it true the heart is half a prophet?

  • eight grey names on my friends list (x_x)

  • we have tix for midnight may 18th for Ep III: Revenge of the Sith!

  • we have tix for mars volta in june @ berkeley!...
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nopantsdave:
opticnerve:
Let's just say I HATE American Airlines.
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velvetknuckles:
I'm happy you liked the pic. Some peeps didn't....
1stxer:
I have never been to San Diego ... but I have heard a lot of good things about the place.
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i:
The bed's too big w/out you. wink
blanketmermaid:
hi! i cant think of any questions. umm, what do you like better: tacos or burritos?

Burritos for sure! My favorite restaurant in the world is called Burrito Factory.

for you: whats your favorite candy?
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Another thing that depressed (her) was prescriptive rhetoric, which supposedly had been done away with but was still around. This was the old slap-on-the-fingers if your modifiers-were-caught-dangling stuff. Correct spelling, correct punctuation, correct grammar. Hundreds of itsy bitsy rules for itsy bitsy people. No one could remember all that stuff and concentrate on what (she) was trying to write about. It was all table manners,...
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cool_spot:
Hehe Well, uh.. I guess my work here is done! smile
oldzork:
So far the orchids have not displayed any aggressive behaviour, but I will be watchful.

I read "The Human Stain" (actually the first Roth book I read). I found it more accessible than "American Pastoral", perhaps because it is more based in events and less in introspection on the part of the protagonist. But they're both good. Haven't read the others yet.

I'll take a look for "Glory". I read "Lolita" years ago, but haven't read anything else by Nabokov. Like you say, authors must hate that. I guess it happens in any field, though... one of the profs in our department is most famous for a paper which he considered a trivial side issue, almost unrelated to his *interesting* work. But it turned out to be useful, so everybody reads that one and nobody reads his other stuff (which he considers better and more interesting). Same in music, etc... On the plus side, it gives you an opportunity to discover a whole side of somebody that most people don't know exists, which can be fun.

The Big D is coming along, but slowly. I need to narrow my focus until I can't think about anything else, but I'm not having much luck. Know any magic tricks for increasing one's powers of concentration?

I liked Pirsig's take on prescriptive rhetoric... that it's all about trying to communicate clearly and convincingly, and with "kwality" (whatever that might be). As you say, if nobody followed grammar rules, anybody would nobody sentences else's understand. smile
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1stxer:
I saw previews of the movie the other night .. gonna see this one for sure. Thanks for replying also. Done some climbing been awhile though.
artrob:
looks interesting
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I just heard this on the radio:

Then I'm walking in Memphis
Walking with my feet ten feet off of Beale
Walking in Memphis
But do I really feel the way I feel
Saw the ghost of Elvis
On Union Avenue
Followed him up to the gates of Graceland
Then I watched him walk right through
Now security they did not see him
They just...
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jjay:
never used the contact button
never had an "email" relationship

you are a cool cat

tadzi:
id rather just post to people on here....the email function is more for personal stuff.
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commonman:
I think I would go with the bangs. And the flowers make me smile, too.
oldpunkbastard:
BANGS.
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I won't bother trying to explain myself anymore. What I give is what you get. Complaints? You get a thwack on the derrire.

I detest my grammar foibles. I only catch a few of them, and the rest remain for everyone to silently groan at. There is no excuse for it. I tend to put together awkward sounding sentences which makes sense to me at...
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opticnerve:
Ha! Mr. Know-It-All. I don't even know what I'm going to do in the next hour.
oldzork:
Nah, not S&M... not really my thing. I just want somebody who will say what she wants, clearly and honestly, and who is happy to make decisions about things if I don't have a preference (and negotiate frankly if we both have preferences). There are a few reasons. One is that there are a lot of things I don't care much about: do I want to go out for dinner, or eat at home? Doesn't really matter. Would I prefer this movie or that? Sure, whatever. And so on. I get tired of expressing preferences regarding things I have no special preference about... yet most women I've spent time with seem to think it's very important that I do so (then they argue with me about it... wink ). Another reason is that I've had a few unhappy experiences with women who were very determined to get what they wanted, but would never just say out loud what they wanted... instead the "correct" technique was manipulation, or trying to explain to me why I should want it, and so on... If they'd just say, "This is what I want," typically I'd have been happy to go along... but no. More generally, self-confidence is sexy (to me, anyway).

Anyway, enough about that.

I said I'd post something more cheerful soon... so: I got my bicycle fixed today, so I'll be doing lots of riding for the next while (the back wheel was unreliable, so I could only use it for very short trips). This will be good.
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I watched I Capture the Castle for the first time. I thoroughly enjoyed it. It made me think of Stealing Beauty the movie with Liv Tyler, even though these two movies didnt have much in common aside from similar themes of self-discovery and young love.

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There are few things that are as debilitating as frenzied paranoia - the obnoxious unerring certainty that everything I...
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suoda:
and i can't even write journal entries! my brain seems to fake it when it comes to conversation. this leads to the everlasting lack of journal entry frustration. my life is just less meaningful than the other SGers. yea.
shard:
Honey bees, bumble bees, killer bees, all useless categorizations. It boils down to the DO bees and the DONT bees. DO bees think things through and get things done. They take action and succeed. Sometimes their actions dont end in success, but they keep trying and find pleasure in the PROCESS more than the final PRODUCT, thereby creating happiness where otherwise none may be found. DONT bees think big and act little. They dream and drift, and endlessly dawdle and fear change. They may have inspiration but lack the initiative. They have ideas but no follow-through. BE A DO BEE! STOP BEING A DONT BEE, for the love of yourself if not God. THIS IS THE DIFFERENCE between TAKING ADVANTAGE of your skills and creativity RATHER THAN taking advantage of those who are still TAKING CARE of YOU! Stop annoying me with your woe is me journal entries. Your glum disposition is ruining the bee hive. STOP moaning and groaning. STOP BEE-LITTLING yourself. The luxury of idleness has taken over the modern world. BEE useful. VOLUNTEER your time for charitable organizations. OR if you dislike organizations, BE YOUR OWN VEHICLE FOR SOCIAL CHANGE. START by leaving your zone of comfort. TAKE RISKS! FALL OVER and GET BACK UP! GET A FUCKING JOB! IF YOU DONT WANT A FUCKING JOB, then I REPEAT, STOP taking advantage of those who SUPPORT YOU. YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM UNLESS YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE YOURSELF SO! You have issues, AND SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE! What is trouble but a common denominator among ALL PEOPLE? Everyone has TROUBLES/PROBLEMS but the difference between the SUCCESSFUL AND THE FAILURES is that one group CHOOSES to do something about it, rather than dream about it. You claim you are intelligent but apparently not enough to take a challenge and take charge of your emotions. DO NOT DENIGRATE YOURSELF. LIVE WHAT YOU DREAM. BECOME WHO YOU WISH TO BE. THE COMING OF AGE phase and the NEED TO FIND YOURSELF craze is SO BLAS! STOP THINKING SO MUCH OF YOURSELF THAT YOU END UP THINKING SO LITTLE OF YOURSELF. YOUR EMOTIONS AND THOUGHTS are controllable. YOU HAVE THE POWER. YES YOU SUCK BUT YOU CAN CHANGE!