age: 36 (Sep 05, 1975)

MEMBER SINCE: October 2004

occupation: Photographer

gets me hot: dalila...in too many ways to mention

crush: still crush hard daily on every inch of my wife's naked body.

sign: Virgo

body mods: just a bunch of tattoos

i lost my virginity: when i was 18 to my high school sweatheart.

into: getting lost on backroads, taking pictures, skateboarding, skinny dipping, bookstores & record shops, people who are passionate about something

makes me happy: good lighting, my wife and sons, long roadtrips, genuine laughter, a crass sense of humor, people comfortable in their own skin

most humbling moment: coming within a few short weeks of losing my life

fantasy: i don't have much patience for fantasy...i'd much rather act on desire.

makes me sad: thongs. people unable to truly think for themselves. the puritan ethic of the religious right. shaped pubic hair. people who commit horrific acts. the loss of community in the new suburban landscape. women who are either afraid of or ashamed of their own vagina. an old person in tears. the legions of men who make being a man a more difficult reality.