age: 39 (Jun 09, 1969)

MEMBER SINCE: April 2005

occupation: Highly Technical

gets me hot: Responsiveness

i lost my virginity: Technically, it was mislaid in Amsterdam, the Netherlands

fantasy: Innumerable and complex

into: Beautiful and distinctive faces, beautiful or distinctive bodies.

crush: It changed mid-sentence. Post-sentence, too.

most humbling moment: Realizing that I had deeply wounded someone's feelings by what I thought was a mere prank. It was long ago, and I hope I have learned from it.

makes me sad: The current administration, the current state of US politics, the disarray of Democrats, the meanspiritedness of wealthy Republicans

makes me happy: Women, good people and their kindness, my dog, fine art, great food, great wine, great restaurants, international travel

body mods: Bi-monthly haircuts, an appendectomy scar, a hernia repair scar, a few faded phone numbers on my right palm, and even some washed-out e-mail addresses there too