age: 43 (Jun 09, 1969)

MEMBER SINCE: April 2005

occupation: Highly Technical

i lost my virginity: Technically, it was mislaid in Amsterdam, the Netherlands

into: Beautiful and distinctive faces, beautiful or distinctive bodies.

gets me hot: Responsiveness

crush: It changed mid-sentence. Post-sentence, too.

fantasy: Innumerable and complex

most humbling moment: Realizing that I had deeply wounded someone's feelings by what I thought was a mere prank. It was long ago, and I hope I have learned from it.

makes me sad: How so many Republicans don't seem to get it, and how Democrats don't seem to know how to take charge

body mods: Bi-monthly haircuts, an appendectomy scar, a hernia repair scar, a few faded phone numbers on my right palm, and even some washed-out e-mail addresses there too

makes me happy: Women, good people and their kindness, my dog, fine art, great food, great wine, great restaurants, international travel