nic0vict0r

I got stood up on another OKC date. Why am I not surprised. I know I have history. But, don't we all. Isn't that what makes us interesting and growing individuals. In this world of interconnectedness why is it so hard to actually meet that person on the other end. I guess this is where I earn my hopeless romantic card...Cheers!

I'm leaving against the gas main. My Broiler Man passes me the blunt. That night hurt. I will never again question the influence of High School Graduation. 2 rezzies,...full house and menus on the bar. Oh good. He looked me and said, "it's just all More. Fuck this Shit."

"yeah,...The Peaks are good, we're having some good days. But man, theirs a price. I didn't...
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Oberon Grill is a space I have created. It is your local bar and grill presentation. It is my parcel. I am beholden to it.

The more that I experience in that space, the more I realize that it is the people I empower that help me to success. That has become one of the foundations of my personal identity through my divorce, aiding in...
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So...If you make a reservation for 25 guests, not show up an hour and a half late after drinking at another establishment.

This happened Tuesday. Cost me and additional 8 labor hours. And, of course they didn't give an additional tip for making it all work.

So....Today, for the first time in over ten years, I truly feel single. I had dedicated my life to supporting and developing others. Now it has to be myself that I spend the energy on. I'm not quite sure how to handle that. I will listen to those I reach out to. They tell me to let things settle. Define my own space before searching....
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When building a business form scratch it is hard to know what it will really cost. I have spend years on the brink of losing it all. One bad day from losing all that my family and I invested, which was everything.

Now that I see the success begin to bloom, I have to look around and see what the toll really was. It's a...
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