So my dad is back from Washington. And my mom kicked him out the day he got back.
You will know the back story if you read my last blog. Well I had lunch with my grandma this week and we started talking about my parents divorce. And how it will be the best thing for the both of them.
Then she started telling me what the final ending point for my mom was.
I guess my dad has started talking to an old girlfriend from before my parents were married 34 plus years ago.
So my dad is staying with my grandpa and I in San Clemente now. He still hasn't volunteered to tell me anything that has happened. And you know what I am not gonna ask him to reveal anything. It should be up to him to tell me or me finding out somewhere else. Last time I had asked about his cheating he lied to me and told me that he was just friends with this other woman. In which she told me like an hour later after he had gone to bed that they had been sleeping together.
And you know what I wish me and my dad could talk about it. Pisses me off that he feels that he needs to lie to me. I mean for god sakes I'm 30 years old. If he would only talk to me he would understand that I couldnt have been more supportive of his change in his life. And that I understand why he did it.
Don't get me wrong I still feel bad for my mom and the way she found out about it and that my dad has been keeping it from everyone. If he was just to be like well im not happy. We dont have sex. We can hardly call this a marriage. I would have been like yep I get it.
Gah. There is some tension in the house in San clemente now. I offered him the larger room but he said no.
I feel bad that I get this huge room. And he gets a normal size room.
I dont know what to do.
Anyways I am thinking about taking a trip with someone that I met on SG years ago.
We are planning to meet in Italy. I am still coercing her to go. It will be an expensive trip.
I am not gonna say that it will be romantic or that we wont just be friends or what she expects but anyway
it will be fucking badass.
I want to get a Eurotrail pass and travel up into Germany. I have a friend that lives in Stuttgart. And said that he would show me around and show me all the good party places. Would be awesome to make it their around Oktoberfest.
I will also see about writing off a large part of the trip as a business trip and try to make contacts over seas for the vitamin website I keep thinking about starting.
Haha sorry for being so long.
Not that many people read this.
You will know the back story if you read my last blog. Well I had lunch with my grandma this week and we started talking about my parents divorce. And how it will be the best thing for the both of them.
Then she started telling me what the final ending point for my mom was.
I guess my dad has started talking to an old girlfriend from before my parents were married 34 plus years ago.
So my dad is staying with my grandpa and I in San Clemente now. He still hasn't volunteered to tell me anything that has happened. And you know what I am not gonna ask him to reveal anything. It should be up to him to tell me or me finding out somewhere else. Last time I had asked about his cheating he lied to me and told me that he was just friends with this other woman. In which she told me like an hour later after he had gone to bed that they had been sleeping together.
And you know what I wish me and my dad could talk about it. Pisses me off that he feels that he needs to lie to me. I mean for god sakes I'm 30 years old. If he would only talk to me he would understand that I couldnt have been more supportive of his change in his life. And that I understand why he did it.
Don't get me wrong I still feel bad for my mom and the way she found out about it and that my dad has been keeping it from everyone. If he was just to be like well im not happy. We dont have sex. We can hardly call this a marriage. I would have been like yep I get it.
Gah. There is some tension in the house in San clemente now. I offered him the larger room but he said no.
I feel bad that I get this huge room. And he gets a normal size room.
I dont know what to do.
Anyways I am thinking about taking a trip with someone that I met on SG years ago.
We are planning to meet in Italy. I am still coercing her to go. It will be an expensive trip.
I am not gonna say that it will be romantic or that we wont just be friends or what she expects but anyway
it will be fucking badass.
I want to get a Eurotrail pass and travel up into Germany. I have a friend that lives in Stuttgart. And said that he would show me around and show me all the good party places. Would be awesome to make it their around Oktoberfest.
I will also see about writing off a large part of the trip as a business trip and try to make contacts over seas for the vitamin website I keep thinking about starting.
Haha sorry for being so long.
Not that many people read this.
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I think dad's do what they think is better.
Good luck with the italy trip, i always think is the place to go when you are definitely not in your 20's Venice always seems to amaze everybody, but the best thing i would say is the food
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