I saw Leesa (Cor's new girlfriend) tonight - and I could see that the drama's were affecting her and I told her that I was sorry that people were treating her like Shit. I said that people are probably just bored and/or insecure about their own true feelings, not that, that was a justifiable excuse/reason but I told her that in time people will see that she is an awesome person and to not get to caught up with what is happening - *Grr Stupid Gay Scene!! Shakes fist in air!*
I told her people can be mean based on the partial facts but unless they know the whole fact - they really shouldn't be mean (or so judgmental) I told her I know there is two sides to the story and that's why I was their for her and there to support her. Regardless of the rumours ... or what other stories were floating out there - I was going to be her friend.
I told her that I actually like her and I thought she was an awesome person. I told her that I am the last person to judge her and that I didn't care what others were saying about her because at the end of the day I make my own choices. And I am the only person accountable for my own actions/decisions in life. I told her that look, she hasn't done anything mean to me ... infact ... she has only been ever so nice to me that I'd be silly not to be her friend. I said that - right now she can't see this - but people will like her ... she just needs them to realize this themselves ... and they will like her after they meet her or given time - however, she just needs to let people cool down.
I told Leesa that, It's sad that people are so easy to judge each other - I wish we could all get along, but I guess people are people and we all work differently so now and then when we step on each others toes by accident things can blow up. People love twisting things and unfortunately people do get hurt as a result. Some people are very self centered and that's when things can get messy but alas we aren't all like that - so she should hold on to the people that loves her. As these people who are creating Shit ... at the end of the day - really are petty individuals!! (Kylie & Jett)
So we hugged and I hope *fingers crossed* that all did cool down by the end of the night - well at least smooths out there!
I told her people can be mean based on the partial facts but unless they know the whole fact - they really shouldn't be mean (or so judgmental) I told her I know there is two sides to the story and that's why I was their for her and there to support her. Regardless of the rumours ... or what other stories were floating out there - I was going to be her friend.
I told her that I actually like her and I thought she was an awesome person. I told her that I am the last person to judge her and that I didn't care what others were saying about her because at the end of the day I make my own choices. And I am the only person accountable for my own actions/decisions in life. I told her that look, she hasn't done anything mean to me ... infact ... she has only been ever so nice to me that I'd be silly not to be her friend. I said that - right now she can't see this - but people will like her ... she just needs them to realize this themselves ... and they will like her after they meet her or given time - however, she just needs to let people cool down.
I told Leesa that, It's sad that people are so easy to judge each other - I wish we could all get along, but I guess people are people and we all work differently so now and then when we step on each others toes by accident things can blow up. People love twisting things and unfortunately people do get hurt as a result. Some people are very self centered and that's when things can get messy but alas we aren't all like that - so she should hold on to the people that loves her. As these people who are creating Shit ... at the end of the day - really are petty individuals!! (Kylie & Jett)
So we hugged and I hope *fingers crossed* that all did cool down by the end of the night - well at least smooths out there!
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i hate rumours and you seem to have some great advice I shall listen in more closely