So I have never done this, but the pastry chef at the resort I work at is not only damn fine but finds me damn fine. Not just a lust but more. Much more, I didn't think I would gave encountered a stunning quirky girl, who plays games and hikes. Petite white girl with a dancing body, moves like a black girl and has the mouth of a pirate.
So the question is this, how does one make that work? The workplace was always a no for me, but my hours are nuts and there really isn't any other place I could. She's told me the same things. So we are both hesitant for that reason.