Member: idwraith

idwraith Life is just....strange

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DECEMBER 30, 2012 @ 09:10 AM


Third Anniversary of my wife's passing today. 2nd of my Grandfather's and my friend who hung himself in the shed. It's a pretty rough day emotionally. zoom image Every year we re-enact the last social activity we had with my wife. We go out to eat at a restaurant and then see a movie. This year it's a steak house then Les Miserables, which has several of her favorite actors as well as being one of her favorite musicals. So it works out well. The first year we went I received a call to tell me my Grandfather had finally succumbed to cancer. A few days later we found out our friend was missing. He was found hanging inside a shed having killed himself. Last year nothing serious happened, though some events of that day led to finally getting rid of a friend who had become less than a friend, so good came of it. We'll see how this year turns.
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KellyKapowski

KellyKapowski

United Kingdom
February 2007

DEC 30, 2012 09:25 AM

Be strong. Keep one foot in front the other. All those cliches. You seem to be keeping it together and doing really positive things, Im reallly impressed. Having lost my brother aroud Xmas and his fiancee a few months after she hung herself, I have an small idea of what you're going though. Everybody's grief is different but keep going buddy.
My losses are only a year older than yours. Tis time of year is the hardest. If it helps, this past 4th year I have really moved along the 'getting there' stage.
<3

mydogfarted

mydogfarted

Oakland, NJ
June 2003

DEC 30, 2012 02:32 PM

Hopefully it is a quiet and enjoyable day.

Sivart

Sivart

Saskatoon, SK
June 2004

DEC 30, 2012 08:59 PM

Hang in there man.

Alie_Lynn

Alie_Lynn

USA
April 2008

JAN 01, 2013 05:31 PM

Thinking of you and sending as much positive energy your way that I can! Let 2013 be a year of change! Hugs!lovekiss

saraberri

saraberri

Poughkeepsie, NY
June 2009

JAN 23, 2013 09:53 AM

Indeed i am back!

what a rough day for you and your family. i hope you've had an easy time.

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