I wonder about the life of a gypsy...
Alright whimsy aside and unrelated story. I was at a party a few days ago, and I bummed a smoke off one of the girls there and this new to uni med student bitch would not drop it the whole time. "Blah blah you're gonna die blah why would you do that to yourself, its always the same excuse" I had about three smokes, my first in at least three months, thats all I will have for another few months. I like the smell and the taste, it is a genuine pleasure for me to inhale the damn tar but I find I would rather not be addicted so I save it to be a very special treat. I partake in this very rarely. I fucking hate that I should have to justify myself to such over opinionated pigheaded social narcissists. I don't see why it should be such a problem for someone else when it is inflicting nothing on them (we where outside on the balcony out of everyones sensitive way).I don't have a problem if you don't like it, I've had relatives die of cancer (we all have) but thats not the point.
The next day, (over facebook) she tries to tell me how I should be careful since I'm vegetarian with my diet. All about how I need protean blah blah blah. My mother is a nurse, my boyfriend (a type 1 diabetic) is a veritable wealth of nutritional knowledge not to mention god forbid my own cognitive capabilities regarding what I put in my fucking mouth.
Why do they do this? Wether it be about smoking, drugs, tattoo's, piercing, pregnancy, your job, hair dye and makeup. Its random people or acquaintances that do not care for your health or well being, they just want you to know they disapprove. Does this give them a sense of normality? of superiority?
It either pisses me off or upsets me.
I guess it makes life interesting though huh?
Alright whimsy aside and unrelated story. I was at a party a few days ago, and I bummed a smoke off one of the girls there and this new to uni med student bitch would not drop it the whole time. "Blah blah you're gonna die blah why would you do that to yourself, its always the same excuse" I had about three smokes, my first in at least three months, thats all I will have for another few months. I like the smell and the taste, it is a genuine pleasure for me to inhale the damn tar but I find I would rather not be addicted so I save it to be a very special treat. I partake in this very rarely. I fucking hate that I should have to justify myself to such over opinionated pigheaded social narcissists. I don't see why it should be such a problem for someone else when it is inflicting nothing on them (we where outside on the balcony out of everyones sensitive way).I don't have a problem if you don't like it, I've had relatives die of cancer (we all have) but thats not the point.
The next day, (over facebook) she tries to tell me how I should be careful since I'm vegetarian with my diet. All about how I need protean blah blah blah. My mother is a nurse, my boyfriend (a type 1 diabetic) is a veritable wealth of nutritional knowledge not to mention god forbid my own cognitive capabilities regarding what I put in my fucking mouth.
Why do they do this? Wether it be about smoking, drugs, tattoo's, piercing, pregnancy, your job, hair dye and makeup. Its random people or acquaintances that do not care for your health or well being, they just want you to know they disapprove. Does this give them a sense of normality? of superiority?
It either pisses me off or upsets me.
I guess it makes life interesting though huh?