So back in 2012 my wife got me an account here at SG. Now my wife and I don't swing or sleep with other people but she lets me view the beauty that is a girls body. Now I had no idea what I was in for at SG, all I knew was there was a bunch of naked girls. So I will be honest, I came here fully for the purpose of just looking at naked girls.
Fast forward a few years and now I am here and realizing I am not here just for the naked girls anymore. I find myself giving advice to younger girls and trying to start a dialog with people. Yes if you look at my follow list its all girls, that doesn't mean anything besides I prefer to not have a flood of dick pics on my feed when I look at it. I have meet some really cool people here.
One of the things I have noticed that has kinda kept me at arms length is I see a lot of girls posting artistic stuff or talking about it. I can't really relate because I don't view art like others. I am the type of person that looks at a painting and says "was the person having a seizure when they painted this". Now I will never make fun of someone who expresses their views of what they think a painting or artistic representation means to them. I do feel a disconnect with those people.
I don't have tattoos and while I know that isn't what SG is all about it is a big part of it. So there is another disconnect.
I have seen SG change a lot, from their popular live chat option with cams to what it is today. SG has really helped me grow cause I have come to appreciate the female body more and not in a drooling way. I see the confidence it gives someone to post even though they think they are too fat or too skinny. I respond to peoples blogs when they need a helping hand on a problem in life or homework. I was an instructor in the Military so when it comes to speeches I am pretty good at it. So good I helped out a hopeful and on cam she flashed me to say thanks lol. I have seen girls go pink and reach their goal, and I have seen other girls try and try and never reach that goal and they end up leaving.
I do enjoy talking to people here and love to lend advice when I can, so anyone reading this if you have a question especially on a speech related topic I am always willing to help. I was never good at talking in front of people and now its one of the best things I do.
Anyways to people who have talked with me and helped me see more than just the naked girls on this site a special shout out to @abbeyso @cherokee @totem @maggie_fracture