Update to the Women post:
Add another to the list. We haven't been friends for very long and she was dating someone when we met. We had a lot of fun together and I was attracted to her but I wouldn't make a move because of the boyfriend; I am all about fidelity and won't have any part of that garbage. Anyway, they spilt a while back and I almost made a move but she started seeing someone immediately. He is military and the distance didn't work out but again, almost immediately, she went back with the first guy. So we were out with a bunch of people last night and the boyfriend wasn't there. We were all having fun and at some point we were dancing and she bit my shoulder, so like an idiot I decided to tell her that I thought we would have been compatible - not only on that level, but others. She said she thought so too and bit my shoulder again; I laughed and it was over. We were talking later and she told me not to write off her or our compatibility. She said she owes it to herself and to her boyfriend to see if things work out but not to close the door on us. I didn't know what to say so I stared at her for a minute and then told her if it happens then we'll talk about it but I wasn't going to wait. She said she didn't want me to wait; she just wanted me to know what she was thinking. How am I supposed to take/handle this?! Why the hell does there always have to be a catch that taints my dating life?!

Update to the Women post:
Add another to the list. We haven't been friends for very long and she was dating someone when we met. We had a lot of fun together and I was attracted to her but I wouldn't make a move because of the boyfriend; I am all about fidelity and won't have any part of that garbage. Anyway, they spilt a while back and I almost made a move but she started seeing someone immediately. He is military and the distance didn't work out but again, almost immediately, she went back with the first guy. So we were out with a bunch of people last night and the boyfriend wasn't there. We were all having fun and at some point we were dancing and she bit my shoulder, so like an idiot I decided to tell her that I thought we would have been compatible - not only on that level, but others. She said she thought so too and bit my shoulder again; I laughed and it was over. We were talking later and she told me not to write off her or our compatibility. She said she owes it to herself and to her boyfriend to see if things work out but not to close the door on us. I didn't know what to say so I stared at her for a minute and then told her if it happens then we'll talk about it but I wasn't going to wait. She said she didn't want me to wait; she just wanted me to know what she was thinking. How am I supposed to take/handle this?! Why the hell does there always have to be a catch that taints my dating life?!