Words can be blinding, they are so easy to be manipulated for people to think differently than what one means. Words can be used to make people feel, see, hear, and taste. But, if I described an apple to you in such detail and you never had a true understanding of what an apple was, I could describe a banana and you would be crushed when you finally got to experience it. Then, when people get crushed by words, they get defensive and instead of reading through the words, and figuring out the meaning by challenging, and forcing truthfulness, they shut people out.
I am the guy, that mends broken hearts... This too is done with words, truthful words, words that build ones character and self trust and respect. The problem, is once the heart is built, it is free to not see through the bull again....
This post is for all the "you are too good of a friend" or the "you are like a big (or little) brother". You know, the ones that always finish last... yeah, you... this is for you!
Just because someone doesn't see something that is so great right in front of them, doesn't mean you should change who you are... because you know what, a nice guy is a great guy... even if he is always single, and continues to see people he is interested in continue to get hurt, and get in bad situations!?!
Nevermind..... Fuck that! I am sick of being walked on! Find another shoulder to cry on!!!!
Rant over!