age: 60 (May 18, 1953)

MEMBER SINCE: October 2006

occupation: books art movies

heroes: those with courage to do in the place of those who merely talk a good thing

gets me hot: beauty,confidence,sublime darkness with laughter

crush: love the one you're with

i lost my virginity: to myself, of course

body mods: none myself after all these years; love what others choose though

into: minimalist poetry,non-parody painting, not repeating what's been done,ninteenth century short stories,russian writers, favorite dostoyevsky and anna akmatova, jack gilbert poet and langston hughes and mary oliver and james wright and sylvia plath, anne sexton, linda gregg...

makes me happy: connecting at any level as honestly as possible, as well as being honest about when you don't connect......hearing laughter that's springs from inside, seeing love expressed without intended to be seen,intimacy,music well played,well worn literature,spoken word(s),beauty in any and all

sign: t on the edge

fantasy: the one who i am theirs

makes me sad: violation of any person's or being's freedom of choice and or ability to know they are choosing, perpetuation of war and hatred,children born where they're not wanted and or are trophies