age: 37 (Jun 22, 1974)

MEMBER SINCE: June 2004

occupation: Louche. Oh, and I write, sometimes, too.

makes me sad: People, sometimes.

crush: O, yes, you do.

sign: Me Up.

most humbling moment: Everyday I write the book.

heroes: John Cage. Gertrude Stein. My friends.

gets me hot: Intelligence. Sarcasm. White panties. Glasses. Wickedness. Being dominated. Dominating. Impromptu lost weekends of sex in hotels in unknown cities...

into: Intelligent, articulate, sarcastic, compassionate women. Surfing. Wine. Conversation. Cooking. Reading. Bike riding. Role play during sex.

makes me happy: Time. Being around people who are inquisitive. Exploring. Spending an afternoon making homemade pasta for a big dinner with friends. Great fucking sex.

i lost my virginity: At 20 years, 7 months, and 20 days...

fantasy: How long've we got?