age: 54 (May 14, 1959)

MEMBER SINCE: April 2006

occupation: Graphic Design / Illustration / Computer Geek

sign: Da Bull

heroes: firefighters, ems, cops

fantasy: A woman and I that love each other and have absolutely NOTHING to prove!

crush: apnea! Actually, I'm easy. I like most of the girls!

gets me hot: Is this Hot as in angry or Hot as in Ooh la La!

i lost my virginity: With a woman that turned out to be a foul bitch using me to make her ex-boyfriend jealous enough to fight me. Didn't work. She wasn't worth fighting for. She's not very happy these days. Karma is a bitch too sometimes!

makes me sad: Thinking of my 1st cat (Loki) dying of cancer when he was 7. Animal abuse (actually makes me angry). When others are sad. I'm very empathic. Seeing a beautiful muscle/classic car wrecked. Seeing a person that thinks they are too fat/skinny/dumb/ugly/etc. Self-doubt is self-destructive.

most humbling moment: When I realized the importance of taking a pet into your heart. How you rely on each other and that I must do whatever I can to give them a good, safe home.

into: being myself and therefore different. I tossed the cookie cutter mold years ago. Fun! Comic books, cool art, tattoos, cats...

makes me happy: Watching my cats bounce off the ceiling and each other while playing. Finishing a well-written story.