I have traveled far and wide, met AMAZING people, and admired (from afar I have confidence issues) the beauty of the female form! I have smiled upon the sight of many colours, many shapes, many sizes, many forms of self decoration; women are just beautiful to look at, nothing wrong with that, its obvious that unlike peacocks, in our species it is the female that was built for attraction. With that being said why is it that women dress themselves so as to accentuate their natural attractivness and then proceed to rip a guy a new ass hole when he looks and appreciates? Yes there are creeps, yes those guys push limits and deserve what they get, but when a guy is simply working at his job - looks up - and mumbles "wow" as you walk by he is not a pig or a creep or any sort of wrong, he is simply noticing what you and nature have been able to create and vocalizing his appreciation for the effort put in and the result of that effort! In the past two weeks I have been run into by a truck, electrocuted, squashed by falling ladder, and grounded suddenly by a sheet of ice.... all of which Id prefer over having been belittled twice by random women for no reason other than a smile or a mumbled "wow"!!!! On a brighter note the ladies here have solidified by belief in women as a whole I dont judge all based on the many bad experiences, and thats cause the few good experiences here have had so much more weight and worth! Yall rock!
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stormyent:
Aw that's so unfortunate! I dress for myself, as I like and sometimes I realize it tends to show off certain aspects of myself (tight pants, low cut tops, etc). As long as somebody isn't creepy about it (I had a man say "isn't this a fine piece of ass!" and that made me feel belittled and objectified) I don't so much mind and I definitely won't go out of my way to be rude. There are so many attractive people in this world, and there is nothing wrong with appreciating the attractiveness so long as it's within respectable boundaries. I often compliment people on things, and get a mix of reactions. Some people don't say a thing, some people light up with joy, and others seem to be uncomfortable. We just have to accept that other's don't feel as open to being complimented, unfortunately.
abjester:
True, and I respect that, but a person can show dislike without being rude about it... if they had turned and said "please dont" in a firm tone, Id have apologized and all would have be fine on my end, to freak out and belittle a person in a public venue so as to leave them with ongoing shame after you leave is un called for... and damnit UNCANADIAN!!!!