My lovely girlfriend dropped a bomb on me the other night. She got a job offer that would take her to Germany for a year and a half. Whoa.
I'm used to her traveling- she goes to either Europe or Asia at least 3-4 times a year, but we were just starting to get this thing on track.
I can't move with her. My job is kind of local and I'm not there long enough to take a leave of absence. Besides I have too much going on with my family to move away from NYC right now.
If she wants the job, I have to let her go.
I figure if we can get through this, we'll get through pretty much everything.

My lovely girlfriend dropped a bomb on me the other night. She got a job offer that would take her to Germany for a year and a half. Whoa.
I'm used to her traveling- she goes to either Europe or Asia at least 3-4 times a year, but we were just starting to get this thing on track.
I can't move with her. My job is kind of local and I'm not there long enough to take a leave of absence. Besides I have too much going on with my family to move away from NYC right now.
If she wants the job, I have to let her go.
I figure if we can get through this, we'll get through pretty much everything.