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What Zarth said. Being a good person and a bad friend at the same time doesn't really jive.

i've never noticed you have a speech impediment, it must be minor...chin up pal!

D00d you rock! I really thought it was your bday!!!

FTW

then this falls under "all days". i still win!

i am so fooled...it hurts, a little...deep in my soul.

but...was smooth, nonetheless.

PROPS!

i figured it out after reading the comments .. happy unbirthday ...

Barats and Bareta are YouTube legends. Even MY YouTube idol idolizes them.

Actually there will be no cake for my birthday, I cancelled my birthday this year, I will turn 24 next year.

Yay!!

Thank you for the birthday wishes Randomness chat is definitely the shizznit

Im so hooked on Tropicana OJ, its not even funny.
I also dont want you to go, but like I said, as part of my recovery and "better life" I wont be here as much as I used to.

And I have no comment either way on the dating site.

What, you might stay?

I will get on my knees and beg you if there's a chance you will stay

As for the dating site idea, hey, it might work. Marc found a girl through that kind of thing once, they really hit it off and things were going great but he forgot to say "I have a girlfriend and yeah, we're poly..." and he dropped it on her after about three weeks and she never spoke to him again. But asides from him lying to her I think things could've gone well. Hey, what've you got to lose? Well, except money.

The boards are too much of a moving target as far as lucidity and sincerity are concerned, so I glean what I can from blogs.

If you're not being selfish in whatever actions we're speaking of here, then I can't help but notice that's your habit for most things. Utter selflessness seems noble, but is destructive. To paraphrase some cliche, how can you help others without helping yourself?

So whatever you want to do with this account, with SG, do it for you. If time away from this will strengthen you, then spend some time away. If the support system here is therapeutic, and you're building strength, then stay.

I'm no therapist, so the only support I can offer really is this: If you do leave SG for a while, I promise not to take your screen name so that you can still have it when you come back.

One day a girl is going to be very lucky to have you.

Until then, maybe you should find another focus in your life, stressing about finding a girlfriend is driving you crazy and you're making it harder for yourself.

Also *hug*

Y'know... I can relate...

I'm beginning to realize that the only reason I'm single is that I'm afraid the girl will think I'm a going-nowhere looser who won't be able to hold her interest for longer than it takes for her to find out that I'm doing nothing with my life...
I'm also begining to realize that we need to cut ourselves some slack once in a while.

My situation is the result of a lot of shit I honestly cannot control... but is that a self-serving excuse???
If it is, so be it. Whatever helps me sleep at night until I feel confident enough to strike out.

Everyone's insecure about one thing or another they say.

If there isn't someone to truly love, who else is there? Your friends. So embrace them man, 'cuz for now it's all you have. Even with all your faults, people here seem to care about you... They don't seem to be asking for a reason to do so... you are though. So embrace your friendships and care for them like there's nothing else in the world for you, and give yourself a reason to think yourself worthy of such people.
And hope that the love you are looking for will come along soon enough...
My friend Chris is always saying I need to stop looking and just focus on myself... this is a guy who could go out every night and come home with a different girl... not the settling type at all...
Personally I usually dismiss what he tells me, but when I swallow my pride and look at the great relationship he managed to find I can't help but think "wow, maybe he's right"
"I never expected it", he says

So take a seat, have a glass of your favorite drink and rethink your life mate, 'cuz usually what you are looking for is right in front of you, and no matter what happens, it is the one or two real good friends one has that will be there for you every step of the way.

And hey, maybe you DO need to distance yourself... Sort whatever there is to sort out and go back to the people you know you can trust, because they'll be there for you when you come back.

Thank you. You know, you can't leave the site or I'll have no one to cheer me up when I'm being a pathetic loser face. And no one to crack me up in chat