I've Been accused of being a liar. it's actually one of the reasons i'm leaving. but i can't get too much into the details of that. that being said let me explain my feelings on lying.
I grew up with a brother who lied like it was the most important thing ever. and he did it damn well. he knew what he was doing. he used to steal my video games from me and sell them, and when i actually started noticing he denied it and got pissed at the accusations. this made me hate lying. a lot actually. so i've never been much of a liar. only lied on the occasions where i really felt it necissary. and even then not so much. people would ask me straight out questions and i wouldn't say no if the question was dead on, even if it was incredibly embarrassing.
About lets say a year ago, i punched a co-worker in the face. it was a stupid move, i knew it at the time, i know it now. but my first instinct, instead of trying to cover it up, or anything... i went straight to my boss and told him what i had done. i was still on a 30 day trial on full time at this time and it could have totally fucked things up for me. like i said i didn't try to lie my way out of this, or anything i went straight for the truth.
now that being said, i don't see why i would lie in order to save a friendship with a person i barelly talked to on here, when i wouldn't have lied at the time where i might have thought it could have saved my job. it just makes no sense to me. but that obviously doesn't matter.
on a better note, the other night we had a bird in the store at work. we ended up getting into a room where we had it so we couldn't get it out. we still were having trouble getting it to fly out the doors, but in the end i got a little tub with a cover, caught the bird under the tub slid the cover under making sure to go slow and get the bird to jump onto it so i wouldn't crush his feet, and then i brought it outside. i'm kind of glad i was the one to catch it, because the other kid trying to i think might have been a little more violent towards the bird. i'm glad i helped the little guy out.
I grew up with a brother who lied like it was the most important thing ever. and he did it damn well. he knew what he was doing. he used to steal my video games from me and sell them, and when i actually started noticing he denied it and got pissed at the accusations. this made me hate lying. a lot actually. so i've never been much of a liar. only lied on the occasions where i really felt it necissary. and even then not so much. people would ask me straight out questions and i wouldn't say no if the question was dead on, even if it was incredibly embarrassing.
About lets say a year ago, i punched a co-worker in the face. it was a stupid move, i knew it at the time, i know it now. but my first instinct, instead of trying to cover it up, or anything... i went straight to my boss and told him what i had done. i was still on a 30 day trial on full time at this time and it could have totally fucked things up for me. like i said i didn't try to lie my way out of this, or anything i went straight for the truth.
now that being said, i don't see why i would lie in order to save a friendship with a person i barelly talked to on here, when i wouldn't have lied at the time where i might have thought it could have saved my job. it just makes no sense to me. but that obviously doesn't matter.
on a better note, the other night we had a bird in the store at work. we ended up getting into a room where we had it so we couldn't get it out. we still were having trouble getting it to fly out the doors, but in the end i got a little tub with a cover, caught the bird under the tub slid the cover under making sure to go slow and get the bird to jump onto it so i wouldn't crush his feet, and then i brought it outside. i'm kind of glad i was the one to catch it, because the other kid trying to i think might have been a little more violent towards the bird. i'm glad i helped the little guy out.
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And thanks for the well-wishes - that would be ideal.
And I hope this time off is good for you.
You're a good person, and you remind me a lot of myself at your age.