I just joined a very interesting program. This woman I know runs group that gets people like me, meaning men and women who are dealing with loneliness and isolation for various reasons, together. There are weekly get-togethers, where various issues are discussed and group outings are planned.
The outings that aren't free are paid for by the organization that sponsors the program. We are also encouraged to call at least one other person from the group at least once a week. I signed up for two outings already. On July 18th, many of us are going to the Museum of Modern Art. Admission would normally cost $20, but we're getting in for free. Some of us are also going to a Yankees - Blue Jays game at Yankee Stadium. I'm not sure of the date, but it's also free. The seats won't be great, but who cares? There are many other things scheduled for the summer and beyond. The fact that there is a minimum of expense for these things is of crucial importance to me.
There's also another group that meets on a different day. Members of the group I'm in are paired up with someone compatible in the other group one on one. The idea is to contact each other and do things together. A small amount of money is given to each person to defray some of the cost of going out together. I'm going to have to wait a couple of weeks in order to participate in this part of the program, but it will happen as long as I continue attending.
I don't want to get too excited yet, but this seems like something that I would welcome. While I still have plenty of serious stuff to deal with, this could go a long way toward relieving alot of my frustration, isolation and loneliness. I'm treading lightly because I haven't had anything good happen to me in quite some time.
I know all of my friends here worry about me, so I wanted to post some good news for a change. Your continuous support is greatly appreciated. Nothing good would be possible for me if not for you.
The outings that aren't free are paid for by the organization that sponsors the program. We are also encouraged to call at least one other person from the group at least once a week. I signed up for two outings already. On July 18th, many of us are going to the Museum of Modern Art. Admission would normally cost $20, but we're getting in for free. Some of us are also going to a Yankees - Blue Jays game at Yankee Stadium. I'm not sure of the date, but it's also free. The seats won't be great, but who cares? There are many other things scheduled for the summer and beyond. The fact that there is a minimum of expense for these things is of crucial importance to me.
There's also another group that meets on a different day. Members of the group I'm in are paired up with someone compatible in the other group one on one. The idea is to contact each other and do things together. A small amount of money is given to each person to defray some of the cost of going out together. I'm going to have to wait a couple of weeks in order to participate in this part of the program, but it will happen as long as I continue attending.
I don't want to get too excited yet, but this seems like something that I would welcome. While I still have plenty of serious stuff to deal with, this could go a long way toward relieving alot of my frustration, isolation and loneliness. I'm treading lightly because I haven't had anything good happen to me in quite some time.
I know all of my friends here worry about me, so I wanted to post some good news for a change. Your continuous support is greatly appreciated. Nothing good would be possible for me if not for you.
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kas:
ah I hope so, he's a great little guy ![biggrin](https://dz3ixmv6nok8z.cloudfront.net/static/img/emoticons/biggrin.b730b6165809.gif)
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lolablu:
The foot feels OK. I won't know if I need physical therapy until the cast comes off. I saw the doctor today and he said that would be about 3 weeks from now.