Well, I got my wisdom teeth out monday, hence the short absence. I've been all kinds of drugged up, heh. I was supposed to be asleep throughout the procedure, but for some reason I was awake. I was listening to them talk and sing and argue over what number 12 was in the twelve days of Xmas.
I'm still hurting pretty bad. I think the stitches are already starting to fall out. I wish it would all stop huting, but at least I have an excuse to sit around and eat ice cream all day. haha.
So I am sooo happy to be a part of this amazing and generous community that is SG. Due to money troubles, I went gray early in the week. Luckily, LittleFierceOne noticed and was awesome enough to help a sister out!! I couldn't be more thankful. People in this community have helped me out a lot in this last year with advice and just being nice when I needed a kinda word. Thank you so so so much!!
So once again,
my birthday is DECEMBER 30th, which is a saturday. We will be having a formal dinner at a nice restaurant early on (maybe Hiro's Japanese Steakhouse, but I'm not sure) and then we're having a huge party at my friends house. The plan is for a keg of yuengling, and a keg of Bud light, and then some snacks. Anyone who wants to attend that is in the Wilmington area is more than welcome!! Just send me a private message or IM me on AIM at ANightInSpain.
Soo, I need some advice. Here's the back story. I met this guy a couple months back while I was still living with Sabrina, we hung out the whole day, went to dinner, and I ended up spending the night ( we didnt have sex or anything, we just talked and kissed) Well I thought we'd gotten along really well, and we talked on the phone for a couple days, and then he disappeared, So I deleted his number out of my phone. Well I hadn't heard from him since then, and last night he IMd me and we chatted and he asked if we could hang out. I have been stuck at home and decided I wouldn't mind the company, so he came over and we hung out for a bit. We talked and said he disappeared because he's been working like 7 days a week from sunup to sundown bringing in extra cash to start his own business. Then he took me to the movies and took me out to the bar, and wouldn't let me pay for anything, which I thought was cool. He took me back to his house and showed me all his equipment for his soon-to-be business. My question is, should I believe him and still hang out with him? I mean, I know that's a lot of work, but does that make someone too busy to pick up the phone every once in a while??
I'm still hurting pretty bad. I think the stitches are already starting to fall out. I wish it would all stop huting, but at least I have an excuse to sit around and eat ice cream all day. haha.
So I am sooo happy to be a part of this amazing and generous community that is SG. Due to money troubles, I went gray early in the week. Luckily, LittleFierceOne noticed and was awesome enough to help a sister out!! I couldn't be more thankful. People in this community have helped me out a lot in this last year with advice and just being nice when I needed a kinda word. Thank you so so so much!!
So once again,
my birthday is DECEMBER 30th, which is a saturday. We will be having a formal dinner at a nice restaurant early on (maybe Hiro's Japanese Steakhouse, but I'm not sure) and then we're having a huge party at my friends house. The plan is for a keg of yuengling, and a keg of Bud light, and then some snacks. Anyone who wants to attend that is in the Wilmington area is more than welcome!! Just send me a private message or IM me on AIM at ANightInSpain.
Soo, I need some advice. Here's the back story. I met this guy a couple months back while I was still living with Sabrina, we hung out the whole day, went to dinner, and I ended up spending the night ( we didnt have sex or anything, we just talked and kissed) Well I thought we'd gotten along really well, and we talked on the phone for a couple days, and then he disappeared, So I deleted his number out of my phone. Well I hadn't heard from him since then, and last night he IMd me and we chatted and he asked if we could hang out. I have been stuck at home and decided I wouldn't mind the company, so he came over and we hung out for a bit. We talked and said he disappeared because he's been working like 7 days a week from sunup to sundown bringing in extra cash to start his own business. Then he took me to the movies and took me out to the bar, and wouldn't let me pay for anything, which I thought was cool. He took me back to his house and showed me all his equipment for his soon-to-be business. My question is, should I believe him and still hang out with him? I mean, I know that's a lot of work, but does that make someone too busy to pick up the phone every once in a while??
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Wow, I gotta go give LittleFierceOne a kudoes for this one. That's some serious love right there!
The party sounds great. So do you also have another party in the summer to celebrate your birthday? Karen's is in January and it's always too cold to go outside to do anything, so we have another party later on for her also. And it gets her two parties for one event. Sweet!
I say give him a chance. I know from experience that you can definitely get so wrapped up in work, especially if you have a goal in mind, that all else can fall to the roadside as you try to reach this goal. And work can really suck the life out of a person so all he might have really done is go home and pass out at the end of each day. So yeah, go for it and see where it leads. But, keep your eyes open and see if you observe any signs of it being a lie. Sure, he really didn't promise you anything, but a small lie now shows he could have the potential for much larger lies later. In all things I advise caustion and to protect your heart first. But yeah, see where it goes. Maybe later you can get him to explain all about his business idea (if you haven't heard it already) and offer advice or some limited help (at first). Good luck with this. And take care of yourself first.
Lots of love. And quick healing wishes.
I would say - cut him some slack this once. After that, if you still like him, find a way to let him know he needs to communicate with you. That's what friends do, especially new ones.