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It's been possibly the strangest year of my life, and I can't wait to tell you all about it. Marriage, divorce, cross country moves, house purchase, house selling, pandemic, career changes, new relationship. What a roller coaster ride!!

But I just submitted a new set, which allowed me my free membership back since the old one expired, so I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack! In the meanwhile you can...
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I'd like to say something about myself. Something honest and real. It's so easy to imagine that the people we follow on social media are so cool and wonderful and adventurous and brave and fascinating. And maybe they are. And maybe they're not. I cannot speak for any of them, but myself.

I am no Hipster. I don't know the cool new fashion or music...
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Good morning, friends!

Thinks are finally starting to look up for me. I've had my usual bout of summer depression, followed by hard decisions.

I've resigned from my job. It was a very difficult to accept that I needed to leave, but I did. I've been at the restaurant 3.5 years, since it opened. I helped it grow into what it is now, but the...
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Was reading Post Secret today and came upon this secret. It is also mine. It doesn't hurt as bad as it used to, but it still hurts. November 27 2013. Incidentally, the same date I lost my virginity on, so many years ago.

I'm sorry I haven't been active on here lately. I'm a fucking mess. Cheated on the best man I've ever met, subsequently
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And no one knows.

Busy busy bee this week! My chef went to Jamaica on holiday, and the other sous chef got his ass canned. So little ole me ran the restaurant solo for a whole 8 days! Open to close like a champ. I dunno if I've ever been that stressed but it all worked out in the end and I got lots of
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and I'm.too drunk to post!