Wife and I are calling it quits after 9 years of marriage, 13 years together, and two children. Scared about the future. Hate the thought of dating again.
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rayde:
Don't rush your process, it may take a while until you relearn who you are without your wife. But when you do, that's when you'll be ready to explore other people. You just need some You time.
tubbyadam:
Thanks @rayde. I'm being very picky this time around. I don't want to rush into anything serious right away. I want to explore my life and keep an open mind; have some fun too. So far it's been a lot of rejections and being put in the "friend zone". I'm on Zoosk, Plenty of Fish, and Adult Friend Finder. We'll see how those turn out. I'm in a very small town area so there isn't much to select from, unfortunately.