Wife and I are calling it quits after 9 years of marriage, 13 years together, and two children. Scared about the future. Hate the thought of dating again.

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rayde:
Don't rush your process, it may take a while until you relearn who you are without your wife. But when you do, that's when you'll be ready to explore other people. You just need some You time. 
tubbyadam:
Thanks @rayde. I'm being very picky this time around. I don't want to rush into anything serious right away. I want to explore my life and keep an open mind; have some fun too. So far it's been a lot of rejections and being put in the "friend zone". I'm on Zoosk, Plenty of Fish, and Adult Friend Finder. We'll see how those turn out. I'm in a very small town area so there isn't much to select from, unfortunately.

Spent the last 3 days trying to upload a profile picture. No luck. I drag and drop into the field it tells me to, says it is uploaded, but then never changes.

amaryllis:
I always click 'from local files' then click open on the photo I want. That's the only way it works for me!
tubbyadam:
Still doesn't work. I don't know what is going on. Frustrating!

I only have one resolution this year. I want to be less condescending (that means talking down to people).

amaryllis:
Hahahaha! 😂
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Nobody reads this anyway and followers don't interact. I'm going to clean house of followers and whom I follow. Comments and PMs from you and you will stay on the list. Nothing of the sort will grant you unfollowing. Nothing personal. Just not going to waste time on people that don't interact with me. You shouldn't either. Thanks for your time...
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People that tag photos with "bush" generally don't know WTF a "bush" really is. It's not a landing strip or a tease of a wisp of pubic hair. A bush is a bush and it should look like a bush. Please stop tagging sets with "bush" unless you know WTF it is referring to. Thanks.

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Disappointed and don't know what to do. Two years ago my wife and I went to a drag show. We had never been to one, but we had a blast! Very entertaining. We could only stay 2 hours because we had to get back to the kids. Missed last year, but now this year we wanted to have a sitter for the kids and...
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linnova:
It sounds like you are such a great husband and father! There is always next year! Plus there is always the SuicideGirls Burlesque! Not so much a drag show, but still a good time!!! Does the local collages have drag shows? Mine did. So much fun!
tubbyadam:
I try to be the best father and husband I can be, but I'll be honest and say I'm not perfect. My goal in life is to have my two children state at my funeral that they love me and are proud of me. I'd love to see the SG burlesque show but it's not near my area. There is a local burlesque movement that might turn into a show coming soon that I'm excited about. I've heard great things about burlesque but never saw a show. It's definitely on my bucket list.
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and not ashamed one bit. I've been on such a high note all day long! Found out the local movement to get a burlesque show has a planned show date! Not made public yet, but they will announce when it's set in stone. Right now they posted on their FB page they are meeting with the performers to go over the show. I...
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