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Hug 1: January 1, 12AM: Female, 28: Unique 1

The first hug of the year. I was at Ice Queens place playing some Munchkin. The year flipped over and the new year began. The first person to hug me was my friend Kenny. I was sitting at a table and she came up behind me and ninja hugged me.

Hug 2: January 1, 1AM: Male, 24: Unique 2

Still at Ice Queens when Pixie was getting tired. Her and Rod decided to call it a night and leave. Before leaving, I got a hug from Rod and my ass grabbed. He might not have been the first to hug me this year, but he is the first to grab my ass.

Hug 3: January 1, 1AM: Female, 30: Unique 3

It was Pixies turn to get a hug before she left.

Hug 4: January 1, 2AM: Female, 28

During the time after Pixie and Rod left, me and Kennys boyfriend, who I will name Letter J, played war with Star Trek Uno cards. (Shirtless Sulu was on the skip card) During our game Kenny fell asleep. After some time, Letter J decided to take her home. Before she they left, I got a hug from Kenny.

Hug 5: January 1, 2AM: Male, mid 20s: Unique 4

I also got a hug from Letter J.

Hug 6: January 1, 3:30AM: Female, mid 30s: Unique 5

After talking to Ice Queen, Vampire Bill and Scare Bear about TV and movies, mostly of the Sci-Fi variety, I was really getting tired. I had been up since 5:30AM the previous day. Before I left, I got a hug from Ice Queen.

Hug 7: January 1, 3:30AM: Male, 29: Unique 6

I also got a hug from Scare Bear. As I gave him a hug, he mentioned how he wasnt going to crush me with hugs anymore. Added info: The name I wanted to use for Scare Bear was something he didnt like. So I asked him want his nickname to be and we came up with Scare Bear.

Hug 8: January 1, 3:30AM: Male, mid 40s: Unique 7

The last hug of the day goes to Vampire Bill.

Hug 9: January 4, 9AM: Male, mid 20s: Unique 8

First day back at work. I was talking to a fellow team member when another co-worker, which I will call AK47, came over to wish me a happy New Year. He also offered a hug. How could I resist? We hugged and both went back to work.

Hug 10: Jan 21, 7PM: Female, late 20s: Unique 9

I was invited out for bowling by some friends. We started our first game and Zap asked me how my hug count was going. I told him and a friend of Zaps, which I will name J.Bean, ask what the hug count was all about. After explaining, J.Bean offered me a hug. I couldnt refuse.

Hug 11: Jan 21, 7PM: Male, 32: Unique 10

After hugging J.Bean, I got a hug from Zap.

Hug 12: Jan 21, 7PM: Female, late 20s: Unique 11

After Zaps hug, I went around and got hugs from everyone else that was bowling with us. First was a woman I will call JPEG.

Hug 13: Jan 21, 7PM: Male, late 20s: Unique 12

Next was a man I will call The Thin Lawyer.

Hug 14: Jan 21, 7PM: Male, late 20s: Unique 13

Lastly it was a man I will call Lucky for his super lucky bowling skills.

Hug 15: Jan 21, 8PM: Female, early 30s: Unique 14

About mid way through the second game, a woman joined us, who I will call Katana. When she arrived she was introduced to me and I gave her a hug.

Hug 16: Jan 22, 1:30AM: Male, mid 20s: Unique 15

After bowling, everyone was invited over to Zaps and Momtherologists house. After a night of laughing and talking, it was time for all of us to go home. On my way out the door, I got a hug from a man who I will call Cold Feet.

Hug 17: Jan 22, 1:30AM: Female, 29: Unique 16

I also got a hug from Motherologist.

Hug 18: Jan 22, 1:30AM: Female, late 20s

I also got another hug from JPEG.

Hug 19: Jan 31, 8:30AM: Female, late 20s: Unique 17

I posted on facebook yesterday that I didnt get any hugs this weekend, or the last. Well the last weekend I did get some hugs, I just thought last weekend was two weekends ago. Anyway, I still was disappointed in myself as I am falling way behind on my hug count. The first time I saw the The Queen Dictator today, she came straight over to my desk and gave me a hug. It was a semi-ninja hug, as I was sitting down and she came from the side. I did manage to get one arm around her. I needed that hug as I was feeling kind of down.

So, the reason I am feeling down right now is because I think I mislead some people into thinking I have had more sexual experience than what I really have. I was at a friend's house, who I met through a local poly posse, and we were playing this game where a question would be ask and you would answer the question. The questions are designed for everyone to get to know each other better. One of the earlier questions was "What is integrity and do you have it?"

About an hour into the game it was decided to add the "in bed" clause to the end of the questions. I stopped answering questions some time after that. I tried my best to answer the questions with out letting them know that I am still a virgin. I knew as soon as I let that cat out of the bag the game would end, because then they would know I couldn't add that much to the conversations. I got creative in my answers, but the one that I think I might have mislead on was this "What moment would you like to revisit (in bed)?" I said I would like to go back and revisit my first time. I know it is misleading because it implies that I have already had a first time. I think I might have taken liberty with the question and added in my head, well I don't have to revisit that moment now. I know my first time is going to awkward and probably not that great for my partner. My rationale was I would like to revisit the moment (after I have gain some experience) and show that partner how much better I am.

I feel bad for misleading my friends. Part of me wanted to tell them that I was still a virgin, just so I could be honest with them. Part of me wanted to keep it secret because I didn't want to stop the fun the others were having and also I didn't want them to view me any differently. I have been debating with myself if I did the right thing in misleading them.