I have always been pretty good at riding destinies wave.
The past year has been the worst of my life, Ohio pretty much destroyed my life, or so I thought. In review, I got fired from a job, had many of my cherished posessions stolen (in the same week as losing the job), I am getting divorced from my wife, and will be losing my house in Ohio and thus ruining credit I fought long and hard to rebuild. This all happened from last November through about April, although the wife and I didn't officially call it quits until recently we were through back then. This was the fall of my life previous.
The winter of my life previous. The transition to my new life began when I got the job in Montana. Starting out on my own and rebuilding me. Although winter seems like a dormant period in nature it is when foundations are built and inner strength is gathered. A period of reflection for the sake of learning who I am and what I want. I have embraced my new life here in Montana and have been loving it but something was missing. Not that I was lonely, I am ok with being alone but still just needed one more thing to make this new life complete.
This week it came. For all of the pettiness of Facebook, there is something to be said for maintaining ties to people from the past even if some are just so much flotsam and wasted space. I say this because FB has brought that missing piece back into my life.
Back story:
I grew up in a small town in Florida, and was the only kid in town to have discovered punk rock and new wave. Then I met this girl from Canada with whom I shared a common musical interest at least for one band. We flirted a bit but she was shy, and moved away before we could do anything about it.
We became friends on FB a year or so ago but she was just one of those "good to see she is doing well" friends and we didn't correspond at all. The other day she made a simple comment on one of my posts, and I sent her a little message saying hello and asking if she was doing well. I also mentioned how cute she still is.
Well long story short we have been in constant contact since then and are talking about building a life together.
Spring. She has brought love back into my life, she completes me. Our separate paths have brought us together at this point in time. In the past two days I have spent ten hours on the phone with her, and as crazy as it seems we are making plans to be together. Neither one of us want to waste anymore time apart, and we are going to make it happen for us. There are obstacles, but they are going to be defeated. I need nothing more in my world knowing I have her. I love this woman. Kendra I love you.
Sorry to be so sappy my SG friends, but my life is good and I had to share it.
The past year has been the worst of my life, Ohio pretty much destroyed my life, or so I thought. In review, I got fired from a job, had many of my cherished posessions stolen (in the same week as losing the job), I am getting divorced from my wife, and will be losing my house in Ohio and thus ruining credit I fought long and hard to rebuild. This all happened from last November through about April, although the wife and I didn't officially call it quits until recently we were through back then. This was the fall of my life previous.
The winter of my life previous. The transition to my new life began when I got the job in Montana. Starting out on my own and rebuilding me. Although winter seems like a dormant period in nature it is when foundations are built and inner strength is gathered. A period of reflection for the sake of learning who I am and what I want. I have embraced my new life here in Montana and have been loving it but something was missing. Not that I was lonely, I am ok with being alone but still just needed one more thing to make this new life complete.
This week it came. For all of the pettiness of Facebook, there is something to be said for maintaining ties to people from the past even if some are just so much flotsam and wasted space. I say this because FB has brought that missing piece back into my life.
Back story:
I grew up in a small town in Florida, and was the only kid in town to have discovered punk rock and new wave. Then I met this girl from Canada with whom I shared a common musical interest at least for one band. We flirted a bit but she was shy, and moved away before we could do anything about it.
We became friends on FB a year or so ago but she was just one of those "good to see she is doing well" friends and we didn't correspond at all. The other day she made a simple comment on one of my posts, and I sent her a little message saying hello and asking if she was doing well. I also mentioned how cute she still is.
Well long story short we have been in constant contact since then and are talking about building a life together.
Spring. She has brought love back into my life, she completes me. Our separate paths have brought us together at this point in time. In the past two days I have spent ten hours on the phone with her, and as crazy as it seems we are making plans to be together. Neither one of us want to waste anymore time apart, and we are going to make it happen for us. There are obstacles, but they are going to be defeated. I need nothing more in my world knowing I have her. I love this woman. Kendra I love you.
Sorry to be so sappy my SG friends, but my life is good and I had to share it.
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...you got a good face for it, tater