Sometimes I feel like I out so much effort and energy into things that don’t seem to generate the reaction I would have liked.
I might clean my slate and start over. I’m not sure. Just thoughts.
kiddcash99:
I’m here if you need to talk about it 🥺❤️❤️
jozsef:
Our ability to control others is precisely zero. Of course, if we want a hostile reaction, that is always easy to accomplish but for anything positive, the other person gets a choice of how they react. There is no work of art, however grand and beloved, that some people don't despise. All that said, you can definitely decide to change anything you wish in order to get a result more to your liking. Just don't beat yourself up if other people don't cooperate. What it comes down to is that we can offer, love, advice, information, friendship, a sandwich or whatever and the other person can gratefully accept or tell us where to stick it. Their choice. I would not bother with any big gestures but rather just try things and see how they go. Life is all about learning as we go, about what does and does not work. ❤