Well, I've been a member of Suicide Girls for about a month and a half and I'd like to write a few things about that experience. For a man of 63 years old, married and with two kids older than many of the members (26 year old David and 31 year old Ben), I want to say that I feel such a fine feeling of acceptance almost wherever I go on this site.
There are some wonderful people here. I've tried to be very open about what I do with my job and what I believe about women's rights and the ever-present conflict between males and females trying to be in relationships together, be it friendships or more. I have found openness well responded to, and, frankly, it is a great relief to interact with a group of people who appreciate openness and sincerity.
We live in a difficult, often cold and de-humanizing world, I believe. But surrounded by the natural world, the world of animals and the ever-present possibilities of finding one another in love, kindness and understanding. Not that I want everyone to be nice; far from it. Sometimes the most energized feelings are the ones where you are not nice but angry, direct, getting right down into the nitty-gritty and letting go your frustrations and growling. That makes us more human, not less, I believe.
Anyway, I have made some good friends on this site. I have not tried or, probably even had the ability to develop a lot of friends, but the ones I do have, I feel very strongly about and feel like I'm always wishing them well and hoping they do well in fighting their fights and striving for their "strives" with the full force of their energies and personalities.
Well, I do feel like I'm sort of going on and on here. But I wanted to let you all know that I appreciate you so much who have newly come into my life.
It's been somewhat of a struggle getting my family to understand what I'm doing on a site that advertises itself as "naked girls" etc. (And I am worried if I open up on SG at work at my computer, it could be misunderstood with bad consequences).
So, thank you all who have made this a good month and a half. I plan to go full speed ahead and continue to enjoy all of you as life goes on. And as Bob Marley and many others have said: "Don't worry, Be happy!"
There are some wonderful people here. I've tried to be very open about what I do with my job and what I believe about women's rights and the ever-present conflict between males and females trying to be in relationships together, be it friendships or more. I have found openness well responded to, and, frankly, it is a great relief to interact with a group of people who appreciate openness and sincerity.
We live in a difficult, often cold and de-humanizing world, I believe. But surrounded by the natural world, the world of animals and the ever-present possibilities of finding one another in love, kindness and understanding. Not that I want everyone to be nice; far from it. Sometimes the most energized feelings are the ones where you are not nice but angry, direct, getting right down into the nitty-gritty and letting go your frustrations and growling. That makes us more human, not less, I believe.
Anyway, I have made some good friends on this site. I have not tried or, probably even had the ability to develop a lot of friends, but the ones I do have, I feel very strongly about and feel like I'm always wishing them well and hoping they do well in fighting their fights and striving for their "strives" with the full force of their energies and personalities.
Well, I do feel like I'm sort of going on and on here. But I wanted to let you all know that I appreciate you so much who have newly come into my life.
It's been somewhat of a struggle getting my family to understand what I'm doing on a site that advertises itself as "naked girls" etc. (And I am worried if I open up on SG at work at my computer, it could be misunderstood with bad consequences).
So, thank you all who have made this a good month and a half. I plan to go full speed ahead and continue to enjoy all of you as life goes on. And as Bob Marley and many others have said: "Don't worry, Be happy!"
punkie:
hey hope im one of those friends
sumayah:
thank you that is so sweet I have lots of things written down everywhere lol I'll translate some and post them