THINGS THAT REALLY DEGRADE WOMEN

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My wife and I have a fundamental disagreement. She thinks nude modeling is degrading to women, and while there are circumstances in which this is true, when it is done freely, with mature adult deliberation, and due respect for the person modeling, I believe it can be liberating, beautiful, and healing for both the model and the observer. As my friend, @STORMYENT said in her...
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fayestrawberry:

And men? I guess I don't know about sports, but when asked "Would you prefer a female counsellor?" I answer that the gender doesn't mater to me; what matters is that we get on and understand each other. Yes it is important to know yourself well. You need to know who you are before you can have a successful, healthy relationship. I do believe that a good match means that you can motivate each other and support each other so that you are stronger together than separately. But it may well also be true that relationships/marriages like that are rare.

troubledangel:

Thankyou for your comments on my blog :) I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on this matter.  My husband has very strict  expectations for me and if in some way I do not meet those, I am led to believe that not only am I a failure as a wife, but as a mother to 4 also. Im not sure if this is due to the fact he is a lot older than me or just the fact hes a general arsehole lol, nether the less, im taking steps in my life to surround myself with people who love me inside and out and who make me happy. this site has helped me so much in such a short space of time and feel blessed to be part of this community xx

I hope you are doing well, friend. :) Thank you for the comment on my blog. It is difficult not knowing what lies before you, but it's also difficult knowing. I'm always thankful to have the ability to relate to wonderful people like you. Take care! 

I  accidentally  deleted your comment. So I added you. Please do the same.  Thanks

CULTURE CHANGE

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Most of the hub-bub about the site change has gone completely over my head. I am so ignorant of computer technology, I don't understand what people are complaining about. I never had trouble up or downloading my blog, because I never have any pictures, or videos, or audios in my blog(which is why nobody reads it). I wouldn't even begin to have...
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almost_missed:

I don't have much experience in this site @robertnagiel but know that I love reading your blogs, what you type here is not lost in oblivion :) I have too been thinking about what u have mentioned and after flittering here and there in the community I guess I see a clear picture now. I don't have much to say as @lewolf put my knowledge of the site to shame but nonetheless i do agree on what he has said. Support as much as you want and stay away from the dislike button. I always have this notion that when a hopeful can't get pink she might drag the others down with her, even your favorites and it may all start with clicking the dislike button.

damian_stark:

I've never encountered anything that required me to hit the "Not for me". So I don't. 

WHEN THE GODS WISH TO PUNISH US...

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Oscar Wilde, author, social critic, and all-around bad boy of the Victorian age, wrote his novel THE PICTURE OF DORIAN GRAY to illustrate the ancient adage: "When the gods wish to punish us, they answer our prayers." I have repeatedly foundthis to be true in my own life. And it has prompted some personal observations about our cyber-community which I would like to share here...
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lewolf:

@almost_missed :)

adenah:

<3 you will never be a loser. And I can't thankyou enough for your support

HELP! MY BRAINS ARE FALLING OUT!

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As I face the end of another year, I'm afraid 2014 may be the year when the last of the gray matter in my cranium finally dies. How I wish you could have known me when I was young. I was brilliant then! Not only was I more intelligent than most, but I was possessed of a wisdom beyond my tender years, which led...
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lewolf:

BRAVEAUX, my Friend... very very well said, for someone who fears they teeter on the verge of cranium voiding and eventual collapse!  I love your almost folksy way of reviewing your life in 500 words or less... and I know the subtle truth of it... for we all will recognize such truth down the road.  A good read... Thank-you for this blog!

STARS AND PLANETS OUTSIDE OUR OWN

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Christmas is a holiday which celebrates those who look to the stars. As a matter of fact, I always thought I was destined to be an astronomer, because every teacher I ever had told me: "Young man, you're just taking up space in this school!" Happy Holidays.

almost_missed:

Haha this made me smile loads! Merry Christmas to you santa :D