Know what is great?
when you're labeled before anyone even knows you, all the time I have people add me and right away before even telling me anything about themselves or anything, they start going on about their lives I mean, don't get me wrong, I love to help people, it was actually a career I was considering, but when I don't know you and it just kind of pops up out of the blue where you just add me and start telling me about your love life and all of your problems,
I just don't get it, I mean I have problems too, everyone has problems no ones life is perfect, but could you at least get to know me a bit before you start telling me about your life, I mean first impressions are everything, and I don't see how adding me and bitching is going to give me a good first impression.
Another thing, half the time when these people add me, I am not in the mood to talk, and how is it fair that they put me in this position?
HAHA and I love the "friends" who only talk to you when theres something wrong with them, but when you're upset, who's around? no one! omg what a surprise?
oh and the best ones are the ones who talk to you and ask you for your advice and then when you tell them something they don't want to hear they get all mad at you, even though it's the truth, like would you want me to lie to you if your boyfriend was beating you and tell you "oh it's ok, everything will be fine, he'll change some day"
or "oh you got some random girl knocked up when you've been dating someone for 3 years, Oh thats alright, I'm sure they'll forgive you for cheating!"
like why even bother if you know I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, because I tell the truth and if you don't like it, then don't talk to me about your problems.
it's as simple as that, srsly.
when you're labeled before anyone even knows you, all the time I have people add me and right away before even telling me anything about themselves or anything, they start going on about their lives I mean, don't get me wrong, I love to help people, it was actually a career I was considering, but when I don't know you and it just kind of pops up out of the blue where you just add me and start telling me about your love life and all of your problems,
I just don't get it, I mean I have problems too, everyone has problems no ones life is perfect, but could you at least get to know me a bit before you start telling me about your life, I mean first impressions are everything, and I don't see how adding me and bitching is going to give me a good first impression.
Another thing, half the time when these people add me, I am not in the mood to talk, and how is it fair that they put me in this position?
HAHA and I love the "friends" who only talk to you when theres something wrong with them, but when you're upset, who's around? no one! omg what a surprise?
oh and the best ones are the ones who talk to you and ask you for your advice and then when you tell them something they don't want to hear they get all mad at you, even though it's the truth, like would you want me to lie to you if your boyfriend was beating you and tell you "oh it's ok, everything will be fine, he'll change some day"
or "oh you got some random girl knocked up when you've been dating someone for 3 years, Oh thats alright, I'm sure they'll forgive you for cheating!"
like why even bother if you know I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, because I tell the truth and if you don't like it, then don't talk to me about your problems.
it's as simple as that, srsly.
abbiss:
People are like that. Unfortunately we won't whange anything and we are may be a little like them too.
iggy:
Yeah people are jerkasses like that.