so i was told that i need to communicate better. i took that advice and i'm trying really hard to do that and i think i'm doing a good job. i had something that i wanted to talk about yesturday and i brought it up. i as calm and immediately it was taken the wrong way. and today it was turned into a totally different thing. now what i was concerned about is my fault. so in conclusion i'v come to realize that it was how i communicated it was that i had anything to say at all. that i was really being asked to shut up. nice huh?
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I have found that a LOT of people in the world dont want to listen to you, hear your opinions, or help you through your problems. Most people, whether they realize it or not, are just waiting on the edge of their seats for their turn to talk. Lots of people take it to the next level and make it obvious they have no interest instead of just politely waiting to speak.
I learned this a long time ago. If I try talking to my Mom or Sister for example their eyes glaze over, all answers turn into Mmhmm or Oh, and as soon as I pause they start talking about something in their life. Doesnt make them bad people really, doesnt mean they dont care about me.I just really think they dont realize they do it.
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