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Sorry I've been such a bitch about updating this. Life has been a motherfucker these past few weeks.

I had an interesting date last night. It was a first time client, a lovely woman. Very, very thick red hair, cute freckles. Her husband is an animator for Pixar, and loves his work. I mean, he LOVES his work. They both refer to it sarcastically as 'the other woman'. She has a little boy in elementary school, and has nothing to do with her day. Maids clean the house, meals are brought in. She misses intimacy with another person, misses human contact, has never had an orgasm, has never even had sex for more than 2 or 3 minutes at a time...etc. etc. etc.

So, we met at a nice sushi bar and had a quiet dinner. She was nervous at the beginning, but warmed up ALOT as we ate. By the time the meal was done, she was acting like we'd known each other for years. Touching my hand when making a point etc. She was clearly attracted and interested.

So, we get upstairs. I'd already got a bit of a sense for what she was interested in.

I took the first half hour and gave her a long, slow erotic massage. My 'mood music' CD was on, she was moaning and thoroughly enjoying her self.

I went down on her for a very good long time. Very, very slowly, built her up in little baby steps. She was dripping wet, bucking and gyrating.

So, I double bagged my dong, and started the slow process of penetration. My dick seemed like it went in without too much resistence, but she started to tense up and wasn't as into it. She said it made her feel 'too full'.

This has happened from time to time. The solution to this is to go down on her again, and try and loosen her up with fingers etc...get her more ready.

The second time went a little better, but after a few minutes of very gentle, very shallow thrusting she asked me to stop.

It appears that my dick was too big for her. She said that when she first saw me naked, she was actually excited about sleeping with me. She's always wondered what a big dick would feel like. She was relaxed and accepting and really WANTED intercourse.

She enjoyed the foreplay and the oral sex. But anatomically, she just wasn't built to accomodate me.

So, a few conclusions:

First, I do not have a huge dick. I am 7 - 7.5 " long, and 5.5 - 6" in girth. that's not huge.

Second, men -- be careful what you wish for. 8" dicks are not all they are cracked up to be. You can have much MORE satisfying love life with 6" than you can with 8". If you talk to a guy with 9" dick, their lives are not all that great, really. I think I could actually do MORE with a smaller dick than what I have.

Third, in general, size really, really doesn't matter. I've been chatting all morning with a beautiful, stunning SG who has been reiterating this point over and over. There are the 'size queens' out there, but they are not the norm. Most women are going to be ecstatic with the size of your dick.

Finally, confidence, skill, stamina -- these are what really matter to a woman. Even a size queen woudl rather have a confident, skilled man with an average dick, than to have a selfish asshole with a huge dick.

If you want to be the worlds greatest lover, then:

* Learn what women like and don't like.
* Do your kegels and learn ejaculation control.
* Concentrate on what your partner enjoys, first and last.

And STOP taking enhancement pills. jelqing is good for a lot of reasons, but if you think getting a bigger dick will make you better please women - WRONG. This is not my opinion. This is fact.

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Peace to my friends in trouble right now....positive energy to you all.