Why women hire me
It's probably easier to draw a few distinctions. There are different types of whores, male and female. Roughly, they fall into a couple of categories.
First, there are those that do truly anonymous fucking. There is no raport or connection - it's just fucking. These are mostly the people standing on corners. While you may come find the same girl or guy repeatedly, I think it's more accurate to describe this as one-off, cruising type of liasons. In this case, the client just wants to get off - period. No romance, no pretense of a relationship...it's just about getting to orgasm.
Second, there are whores who provide more than just a dick or a mouth or a pussy. For my sista's, it's called the GFE (Gir Friend Experience). That is, the encounter is so natural and so friendly, you'd swear she was your girl friend. This is actually the goal for some female escorts - is to provide that experience.
The latter is what I do. Women who come to me want orgasm - several preferably - but they want more than that. They want romance, seduction, intuitive attention to their needs and desires.
I think there are a few reasons they come to me, as opposed to searching for it 'in the wild':
* Sometimes, they've had really bad luck searching on their own, and dont want to keep trying. It's easier to just call me, rather than to keep working and looking.
* Sometimes, they've had great experiences, but don't have time or desire to engage in a formal relationship (even friendship-with-benefits). It's sometimes easier just to call me.
I also, in my hubris, believe I am better at all of this than most guys. So, maybe that helps.
What I would like to emphasise, is that this does not make them lonely or depressed women. I believe in some cases my clients do have real issues, but I also hope I help them work through those issues. But, just becuase a woman calls me, it doesn't mean she's desperate. Mostly, it's quite the opposite. These are succesful, beautiful women. It's not for want of opportunity.
Also, by providing this service, it does not make me lonely. My life is very busy, and I prefer it this way. I get to meet and enjoy the company of some extraordinary women. So fucking sue me for not feeling bad about it.
I honeslty don't know if I've explained it well. Please feel free to ask follow up questions if I've failed in some way.
Now...
I just typed up 2 or 3 paragraphs on 5-somes and sex clubs, but it seems fake. My heart must not be in it right now, because it really didn't seem authentic. Maybe later.
In parting, I know what I do is not completley altruistic. I get paid, and I get off, and the women are beautiful. I know the women sometimes have issues. And in a perfect world, everyone would find their soul mate and find sexual fulfillment at the same time. But this is life, and it's sometimes complicated and messy. And while I opened myself up to this by writing publicly, I did not expect some of the demeaning and highly judgemental reactions I've recieved - especially on a site that charges the patrons to view naked women.
Anyway...more soon.
It's probably easier to draw a few distinctions. There are different types of whores, male and female. Roughly, they fall into a couple of categories.
First, there are those that do truly anonymous fucking. There is no raport or connection - it's just fucking. These are mostly the people standing on corners. While you may come find the same girl or guy repeatedly, I think it's more accurate to describe this as one-off, cruising type of liasons. In this case, the client just wants to get off - period. No romance, no pretense of a relationship...it's just about getting to orgasm.
Second, there are whores who provide more than just a dick or a mouth or a pussy. For my sista's, it's called the GFE (Gir Friend Experience). That is, the encounter is so natural and so friendly, you'd swear she was your girl friend. This is actually the goal for some female escorts - is to provide that experience.
The latter is what I do. Women who come to me want orgasm - several preferably - but they want more than that. They want romance, seduction, intuitive attention to their needs and desires.
I think there are a few reasons they come to me, as opposed to searching for it 'in the wild':
* Sometimes, they've had really bad luck searching on their own, and dont want to keep trying. It's easier to just call me, rather than to keep working and looking.
* Sometimes, they've had great experiences, but don't have time or desire to engage in a formal relationship (even friendship-with-benefits). It's sometimes easier just to call me.
I also, in my hubris, believe I am better at all of this than most guys. So, maybe that helps.
What I would like to emphasise, is that this does not make them lonely or depressed women. I believe in some cases my clients do have real issues, but I also hope I help them work through those issues. But, just becuase a woman calls me, it doesn't mean she's desperate. Mostly, it's quite the opposite. These are succesful, beautiful women. It's not for want of opportunity.
Also, by providing this service, it does not make me lonely. My life is very busy, and I prefer it this way. I get to meet and enjoy the company of some extraordinary women. So fucking sue me for not feeling bad about it.
I honeslty don't know if I've explained it well. Please feel free to ask follow up questions if I've failed in some way.
Now...
I just typed up 2 or 3 paragraphs on 5-somes and sex clubs, but it seems fake. My heart must not be in it right now, because it really didn't seem authentic. Maybe later.
In parting, I know what I do is not completley altruistic. I get paid, and I get off, and the women are beautiful. I know the women sometimes have issues. And in a perfect world, everyone would find their soul mate and find sexual fulfillment at the same time. But this is life, and it's sometimes complicated and messy. And while I opened myself up to this by writing publicly, I did not expect some of the demeaning and highly judgemental reactions I've recieved - especially on a site that charges the patrons to view naked women.
Anyway...more soon.
thank you for sharing this with us
And I really hate the false perception that people may have about clients. I've had some of the most attractive. intelligent, and interesting clients both male and female, Not to say that they were all beautiful and amazing but There is this like common perception that anyone who has to pay for anything sexual is incapable of this on their own. If everyone really knew how common it is, it wouldn't be so stigmatized and demonized and i think it would really help out with the "Guilt issue" I have seen in certain clients. Sometimes i feel like its trying to persuade a teenager that masturbation is okay. anyway I guess i had alot to say about that. I'm still around, same place.