My client last night was not atypical. I get strange requests from time to time...Wierd fetish shit, kinky dom or sub stuff, hard role playing. I'm always curious about this, and tend to go with it more often than not. But, by far, the saddest request I get is: "Can you give me an orgasm? I've never had one..." Sites like this, you begin to think that orgasms are relatively commonplace amongst women. But their not. In my experience, the majority of women have never had an orgasm. Many more can only have an orgasm one way or another (masturbation / only with oral / only on top etc.). So a common request is to give a woman an experience they haven't had. Either an orgasm period, or a vaginal orgasm...things along those lines.
The challenge, obviously, is that most often, the problem is not physical, or technique - it's emotional or psychological. I know this is not news to anyone, but it complicates my life alot.
Last night, I was with a long term client. When I first met her, she had never experienced an orgasm at all. Now, she can experience a full cornucopia of female orgasms. The REAL positive in all of this, is that she now understands her body, and can experience these to some degree with her long-term partner. It's actually helped her relationship enormously. He's actually more interested in sex now than he ever was, just based on her enhanced enjoyment of it.
Have to run for a bit...my next post is important, though...
The challenge, obviously, is that most often, the problem is not physical, or technique - it's emotional or psychological. I know this is not news to anyone, but it complicates my life alot.
Last night, I was with a long term client. When I first met her, she had never experienced an orgasm at all. Now, she can experience a full cornucopia of female orgasms. The REAL positive in all of this, is that she now understands her body, and can experience these to some degree with her long-term partner. It's actually helped her relationship enormously. He's actually more interested in sex now than he ever was, just based on her enhanced enjoyment of it.
Have to run for a bit...my next post is important, though...