point8flashes

Good to hear!

Can't believe you haven't added ME yet!!!! Whats up babeh?

fingers crossed for you sweety

sometimes the amount of comprimises you both have to make arnt worth it. (im not trying to seem dull, just another view on the situation) im glad things are working out again so far.
i just want you to think about something someone told me
"humans die, animals die, plants die, love dies too."
you have my best wishes thou

If what you did feels like it was the right thing to do, then it was.

Give it your all. Regret would be worse then not trying. I agree.

Good luck! I hope it all works out & with a sappy movie-style happy ending too!

i wish my guy would have given our love another shot.. i never got that chance..
your chick, she is a very very lucky girl.
i reallly hope everything works out for you hunny.

Since I'm an opinionated little wench, I have opinions.

Never feel that you MUST feel a certain way. Your feelings have been doing their own thing your whole life and by now you have to realize that though you can control a lot in your life, that isn't one of them. You can still love something/someone but realize that it's slowly sucking the life out of you. If it ever DOES get to that point, distancing yourself from it to relocate who YOU are is ALWAYS the best route. Couplehood to me is something that you share with someone and sure, eventually you both evolve into what's right for both of you, but if you're evolving into something you never wanted to be, keep the love but get back to who YOU are. Life's too short to cater to pleasing the rest of the world and ignoring what you're own hopes/dreams/goals/standards/convictions were about in the first place darlin.
Hopefully because of the history you both had, you can grow to be great friends. Some of my BEST friends are ex's, and we get along way better now as friends since we parted before destroying each other.

I have advice to friends about relationships that have gone sour... it's rather blunt, but that's what I'm about, it goes:
If you take a carton of milk out of the fridge, and find it's turned sour, you don't put it back in the fridge and think, well, if I just be patient and see what time brings, it may turn into good milk again. It won't. Rare that relationships repair when left to stagnate either unless there's some serious work done on them. Habits are HARD to break and if a couple has got into a habit of doing things to break the other, chance are without help, the pattern will continue and worsen. : /

You did the right thing in either ending it, or stepping back for awhile to put it into perspective to see if it's fixable later on in time after you both see how much you miss each other and are willing to work it out later.

Hugs to you in your time of confusion, but to quote a saying... "...and this too shall pass..."

Good luck dollface and I hope things balance out for you both quickly.

I'm so sorry to hear about this. As for your not being as upset as you thought you'd be, perhaps it does point to the fact that you knew things had to change, but maybe not. We all deal with pressure in unexpected ways sometimes and there's no need to justify them; it's just how we cope.

I hope you're all right.

np. thank you -=]

Thank you for the friends add!

not this year... it would be so very nice though...

where ever are you my friend?

didy ou get sucked into a nexus???